Cultivate a habit that will benefit you for life, and working hard to make yourself fall in love with reading is also a kind of growth.
Read today's chapter 5 of "Mr. Toad Goes to See a Psychologist", a fable of growth.
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In order to get food and attention, babies will learn to suck and scream. This is a necessary growth process for babies. When you grow up, studying and going to school is also for growth. Learning is an accelerator of growth. In addition to learning knowledge, children must also learn how to deal with and defend against adverse consequences. In the book, Mr. Toad, under the guidance of a consultant, sorted out the basic emotions of children, including happiness and affection, anger, sadness, and fear. These emotions together form the so-called "natural child".
psychological counselor Gang He's view, "No matter how old people are, they may be in a child state. After people enter the child state, their feelings and behaviors are exactly the same as they were when they were young, and have nothing to do with their actual age."
"Children's self-state " In addition to "natural children", there are also "adaptive children". Parents are the people who have the deepest influence on us. We have nowhere to escape when facing the influence of our parents. The only thing we can do is to adapt to every moody.
