According to relevant surveys, among the 100 children, about 30 children have been bullied by their classmates, and the probability of being verbally ridiculed by their classmates is as high as more than half. Poor parents in the world, how many parents and families know about these bullied children?
is often bullied and may go to extremes
Survey also found that children rarely take the initiative to tell teachers and parents about being bullied. Because there is a phenomenon among children, children who like to complain are not very popular. This has led to many children being bullied and suffered a lot of grievances, and parents are likely not aware of it.
There have been frequent campus bullying incidents on the Internet in recent years. I remember watching it online that a child was insulted and mocked at school. The child could not help feeling ashamed and left two letters. One is left at the class desk; the other is taken by the child, and he leaps down from the tall building. When the child's mother saw the letter, she was almost crazy.
The mother said that it was the child’s grandfather’s birthday that day, so she made an appointment with the child in advance and wanted to celebrate her birthday with her grandfather. Moreover, the child himself told his mother, "I won't come back, don't start, you must wait for me."
Extreme behavior
But the mother could not have thought that the child would experience being bullied, and she would not have thought that the child would choose to use extreme methods to tell people about the grievances he suffered and his protest methods. Subsequently, the mother often shared her son’s videos online and called her back every day. However, that cute and cheerful child could no longer return to her side.
campus fight
When children are bullied at school, they lack the correct way to deal with it. Those with strong personalities will be able to form a confrontation between Laban and faction. It will be a big deal about what will develop in the future. In the end, it will definitely affect learning. Children with weak personalities will show humility and seriously affect their children's mental health and growth. It will be painful to feel depressed when bullied, feel ashamed, and it will be difficult to bear the depression. But often this type of child is vitiligo and can easily be exposed, which makes it easier for parents to find problems. If some parents are careless and do not solve the problem in time, they may become followers of other children and bully other children together.
absent-minded, which affects learning
There is another type of children who are motivated and endured, dress up strongly, but are particularly hurt inside. Once this type of child can't bear the stimulus, he will easily protest in extreme ways. In severe cases, the child may hurt himself. Children have less experience and are often bullied but not solved. They often bury the pain deep in their hearts. Once they touch the bottom line they can bear, they may be burned and solve the problem in extreme ways.
Therefore, parents must not neglect their children's emotional performance, nor should they neglect their guidance and communication to their children in daily life. If they find that their children are bullied, they must be handled with caution. If parents do not handle it well, the child will swallow his anger and dare not tell others. Over time, the child may have a lack of personality. This group of children must have timid personalities and lack self-confidence. Children who are prone to swallow their anger after encountering things. Their choice is destined. Children may be bullied more than once, or may be bullied many times.
Because those children who bully people, when locking their targets, the goal they choose is this type of children who have no future troubles, will not sue teachers, parents, and have no worries. The personality of this type of child is born with the potential to be bullied.
There is no parent in the world who doesn’t love their children. No matter what wrong approach the child chooses after being bullied, the victims are the children. Children suffer and suffer. Can such children still study normally and grow up healthily?
So parents want their children not to be bullied, the only way is to guide their children to speak out regardless of the size of the matter. Parents should communicate with the school in a timely manner regardless of the size of the matter, giving the children who will bully people an illusion that the parents of this person are very difficult to deal with, so it is better to mess with him less. people are mostly afraid of trouble. do you think so?
