Experts say that
children are ignorant when they are young, and making mistakes is inevitable.
As a parent,
Don’t be afraid of children making mistakes,
When children make mistakes,
Parents should be patient to guide them to correct them.
Many parents can accept other people's children's mistakes,
but cannot accept their children's mistakes.
see other people's children break their jobs,
will ask if there is any injury,
and then smile and say it's okay,
"Stay in pieces",
says something to comfort the child,
But once you meet your children break your jobs,
will have a stern face,
scolds angrily: What's going on with
, why are you so careless?
usually ask you to be careful, but you don’t listen to
for many times. What should I do now? Eat it with your hands.
ended and added another sentence:
is so stupid. You can't learn anything after you grow up so old.
really doesn't understand.
Why do some parents accept other people's children's mistakes, but
cannot accept their own children's mistakes?
Although love is deep and responsibilities are high,
But at such a young age, how can
understand these principles?
The child is still young,
is full of curiosity and desire to explore the future and life.
you blame them.
They think that you love your job more than you love yourself.
They think that you are far inferior to that job.
will have a barrier for you.
will doubt whether your love for him is true.
will also have fear and fear of you in your heart.
will gradually be unwilling to communicate with you.
will also be afraid of making mistakes in the future.
will also escape when encountering things.
will be scolded by you again because of fear of making mistakes.
will have a great impact on the healthy growth of children.
So,
Parents should learn to face their children's mistakes in a benign manner,
should be able to accept their children's mistakes,
After all, children are young,
is normal for
to make mistakes,
The key is that when children make mistakes,
should have a good attitude and method,
let the child know that he has made a mistake,
let him know that he has made a mistake,
let him know that he has made a mistake,
let him know that he has made a mistake,
let him know that he has made a mistake,
let him Knowing that you cannot make excuses for the mistakes you made,
lets him know how to avoid the same mistakes in the future,
guide him calmly,
lets him understand what is wrong and how to do it is right,
without hurting the child's self-esteem,
does not damage his enthusiasm for exploration,
you cannot accept that the child makes mistakes,
is to prevent him from growing up and being sensible.
What do you think?
You also made mistakes when you were a child, I'm not big now
