A friend gave birth to a second child, and the child is only about three months old now. Then while chatting with her, I asked her what was her biggest feeling about having a second child? She said that the biggest feeling of giving birth to a second child was not to have a second child because it was too tiring.
Haha, the biggest feeling of having a second child is not to have a second child. I think it is really tiring for her! Because their eldest son was only a little over 2 years old, and her eldest son was just over a year old, she got pregnant unexpectedly. The family had originally planned to have a second child, so they unexpectedly had a second child, so they stayed!
For her, she was just pregnant. After giving birth to a baby, taking care of the baby, and taking maternity leave not long after, the second baby came again, and her body had not fully recovered, because the eldest son was still very young, and now she gave birth to another baby. Son, her body really is still a little bit overwhelmed. At least now she regrets having a second child. Maybe when the child is a little older, she won't regret it!
On Friday afternoon, while chatting with my colleagues in the office, I was told that my colleagues gave birth to my second child. That colleague is divorced and is currently single with a daughter who is over six years old.
She was chatting with me and said that when she went to a temple last week, she happened to meet a fortune teller. Then she extended her hand to the fortune teller and asked him to help her see how many children she would have. child. The master looked at her palm and said that her child-bearing potential was very weak and that she might not have any children... She told the master that you were talking nonsense. I had already given birth to a daughter, and my daughter was already very big. ...
A colleague told me that if she could meet the right person, she would also like to have another child, because she has five brothers and sisters in her family, and now the whole family is living together happily, happily and lively. No, then her daughter has cousins, cousins, cousins, and during holidays and weekends, everyone can play together, which is happiness for the child!
Playing with relatives and friends, they are also related by blood, that is, they have cousins, cousins, which is good. She told me that she felt that my daughter was quite pitiful because my husband and I both came here from our hometown to work and had no relatives or friends here. My daughter was originally an only child and did not have children from relatives or friends to accompany her. When it comes to playing, there are no cousins, and the emotions between cousins can only be played with classmates, neighbors, and children in the community. Without blood-related brothers and sisters, I feel that my children will be quite lonely when they grow up. So she suggested that I must have a second child.
After listening to her words, I think it actually makes sense, because I myself live in a family with three brothers and sisters. I have a sister and a brother. I think it is really good to have brothers and sisters. Let’s discuss it together. ,Help each other. Then we chatted together and helped each other, which was really good.
But because we are too far away from our hometown, although my brother’s family has sons and daughters, and my sister’s family has daughters, the relationship between them and my daughter is still too shallow. A true friendship and a true relationship requires being together often and getting along together. The relationship between children may be deeper. People like this who don't see each other once a year, just chatting through video, actually have no feelings. Even when they grow up, they won't have the same close and intimate feelings as others who have blood relationships.
Do you want a second child? I am still struggling, and I also need to discuss it with my husband. My mother-in-law doesn't care whether we have a second child or not. She doesn't force us to have a child whether we want to or not. Because she felt that raising grandchildren and granddaughters was too tiring, and just having one child would be enough.
