disagrees with this view. Let’s first take a look at what our ancestors said. The opening chapter of the " Three Character Classic " reads: "At the beginning, human nature is inherently good, nature is similar , but habits are far apart. If you don't teach, your nature will change." This shows that people's natural dispositions are similar, but Environment and habits have a huge impact on people. Without good education, good-natured people will also change.
The influence of the environment on people is also described in the "Three Character Classic": "Xi Meng chose a neighbor, and his son did not learn, so he cut off his opportunities." Why did Meng's mother move three times? Just because the surrounding neighbors and environment are not good, it will affect the growth of the child. Therefore, a person's healthy growth is inseparable from the influence of the environment.
Let’s talk about an example around us. 25 years ago, a certain couple adopted a baby boy. The boy had a docile personality, good looks, a pretty good IQ, and good reading ability (I can only think of it as a natural reading ability). During elementary school, he was always the first in his grade. If nothing unexpected happens and everything goes smoothly, getting into a good university shouldn't be a problem.
However, the child’s mother plays mahjong all year round, at least twice a day. The child never makes breakfast because he is too tired from playing mahjong and cannot get up early. Since the boy entered elementary school, he has always made breakfast by himself at the stall at the school gate. Before going to school every day, his mother puts breakfast money on the coffee table. The primary school is less than 300 meters away from the community. This kind of lifestyle does not seem to affect the development of the children, because there are no obvious problems. Parents only look at the results and think it is good.
went to junior high school. The school was far away, and the boy walked back and forth to school every day. On the way to school, he passed by an Internet cafe and had breakfast money in his hand from his mother. Gradually, the boy had the opportunity to go to the Internet cafe. Sometimes he could save a few days' worth of food and spend a day in the Internet cafe. But the mother had no idea that she was too busy playing mahjong to care about her child. I don’t supervise, ask, or take the initiative to communicate with the teacher.
Suddenly one day, the boy said that he did not want to go to school because he could not catch up with his homework, the difficulty of learning became more difficult, and the homework was heavy and tiring. The family was shocked and asked me to persuade them, but it was all in vain. Even the eight cows couldn't pull him back. And as a result, his personality has become perverse, full of anger, and difficult to communicate.
If parents do not pay careful attention to their children's education, they may face the pain of their children dropping out of school early, and this pain is sometimes really painful to the bone.
Although external factors work through internal factors, for children's education, acquired cultivation is crucial. Why speculate on housing in a school district? This is because children may grow better in well-known schools with strong teachers. Of course, fair access to education is now advocated, and various schools are also making reasonable allocations of teachers and other aspects to reflect educational fairness.
But for family education, the inspiration of "Meng Mu's three moves" should be considered by every parent. How to create a positive and positive family environment is something that parents should always warn themselves about.
Let your child grow up to be an educated, ideal, positive and optimistic person in a family full of love and positive energy. Let him respect others and have dignity from the beginning.
As for academic performance, parents may put a lot of effort into education and training. Some children's academic performance is still unsatisfactory, but his upbringing and his optimism will also enable him to respect others and gain the respect of others. Wherever he is, he is a luminous being.
