China has had such a problem since ancient times, that is, the impact of old people raising grandchildren on children's education. When the elderly take care of their grandchildren, they will only blindly meet the needs of the children, which will ultimately lead to the lack of education for the children.
Does the education of children require too much involvement of the elderly?
If a child has no one who is afraid of family education issues, then it will bring many problems to the child's future.
The first is children's aversion to their parents' education. In the process of raising grandchildren, the elderly will interfere with their children's education. Sometimes, when parents are educating their children, the elderly will come and interfere in a timely manner, which causes many problems. Children should hear that if their parents give way to the elderly, will the children disrespect their parents and think that their parents are not good? Everything is subject to the requirements of the elderly.
Second, children’s education problems must form a fixed pattern, and good changes can be made. For children in special periods, blindly tolerating and obeying children is to dote on them. Let children develop bad habits.
Third, children’s education is not a trivial matter. Too much interference from the elderly has caused many conflicts between parents and children, leading to the question: Who should children listen to? It will only make us parents worry about the future of our children. Many young couples hope to put the elderly aside early so that they will not interfere with the family. However, it is somewhat impossible.
I don’t know what everyone thinks about this? Do the elderly need to be more involved in children’s education?
