I went to a friend's house a few days ago. When I came home, she shared some newly bought parenting books with me. After returning home, I started a journey of reading parenting books.
In fact, there were parenting books in my reading plan at the beginning of the year. However, after reading a few books, my inner concepts changed.
thought, Instead of spending time and energy reading parenting books, it would be better to spend more time with the children. Both children like to have me accompany them. As for me, due to work, sometimes I can't spare time for them.
So I stopped reading the parenting book.
Recently, because of a friend’s sharing, I started reading parenting books again.
I have read a lot of parenting books and found that many parenting concepts are similar. Today's parenting book reading involves reviewing some theoretical knowledge again based on the related books I have read before.
Theory must eventually return to practice and be used in practice. The ultimate purpose of reading parenting books is to guide yourself to pay attention to some methods and methods in daily parenting.
Being a parent for the first time, I have so much to learn, so now I have to learn the theoretical knowledge of parenting by reading parenting books, and at the same time explore some parenting methods that suit me in my parenting life.
No matter what method is used, the best method is the one that suits you and your children.
In this book, some things that mothers need to do during the critical period of their children are explained in detail through psychological analysis and examples. It basically talks about most of the parenting issues you will encounter in childhood, and there is still a lot worth learning from reading it.
In the prologue of the picture above, " gives children a bowl that can be broken ", children are encouraged to try and experience the natural consequences, which is worthy of my reference and learning. " Teaching children to use words instead of crying " in Chapter 1 of
is what I am currently practicing on Xiaobao. In Chapter 2 of
, I have read about attachment before. Because of the attachment theory, I now try to spend more time with my children and cultivate a close relationship with them. This way, it is also conducive to disciplining children.
In Chapter 3, the problem of comparing with other people’s children should be more or less present in many parents. I used to compare my children with other people's children, but now I'm slowly getting used to it. doesn't compare with others. There's no comparability. Everyone has their own uniqueness. There's no need to use your own shortcomings to compare with others. Comparison of strengths.
I believe that my children are unique and have their own strengths and weaknesses. I will not suppress them, nor will I praise them too much. As long as they grow up healthily and happily and become people who can survive independently, that is enough.
In Chapter 4, parents are guided to take into account their children’s personality and temperament and provide targeted education. Only by respecting the child's personality and character and giving full play to the child's potential can we help the child grow better.
In Chapter 5, "Why can't children remember what the teacher said?" I analyzed it from the perspective of children's attention. I finally understood that the reason why the child couldn't remember her homework when she came home in recent times was not that she didn't want to remember. Rather, attention span is limited.
In Chapter 6, "People of the same age are children's best friends" inspired me particularly deeply. I always thought that I could play with my children and they could play well at home. But as the child grows up, I realize that many times she needs companions and friends to play with.
In short, reading this book has benefited me a lot at this stage.
I still have several parenting books I borrowed from my friends. I’ll take the time to read them all during the holidays! Use theoretical knowledge to guide my parenting life.
