December 28, 2021, it’s so cold, it finally looks a bit like winter.
never thought that 2021, when the boss was teasing his classmates, would end with a beating. It was so infuriating to talk about it.
Big Brother accidentally developed a cough these days, so I asked for leave today to take him back and prepare to receive treatment and rest at home. Unexpectedly, as soon as the front foot entered the door, the back foot teacher sent a message. We took a look to see if there was a red ballpoint pen in the schoolbag of the eldest brother Doudou, saying that if there was, it was her pen for correcting homework.
My mother and I were immediately surprised by what the teacher said! Because we bought countless ballpoint pens for the little guy on weekdays, no matter what kind of pens we bought for him, but we just couldn’t figure out why he would take away the teacher’s red ballpoint pen, regardless of whether the teacher was against Old Doudou or not. Regardless of any prejudice or misunderstanding, the mother still chose to believe Doudou first. She asked the little guy lightly and said, "Classmate Hu Doudou, did you take the teacher's red ballpoint pen?" Her heart was not beating and she was breathless and calmly replied: "No."
Immediately, my mother replied to the teacher with the results of the cross-examination. However, the reply sent by the teacher again was that all the students in the class saw that it was Hu Doudou. Take away the red ballpoint pen.
My mother was not calm now, and immediately opened her schoolbag and took a look. You don’t know this by looking at it, you’ll be shocked when you see it! The red ballpoint pen that the teacher said was indeed in the brat's schoolbag. Suddenly, he was so angry that he was furious. Logically speaking, he bought a lot of gel pens and ballpoint pens for him on weekdays, almost... I buy and buy every day, but I just can’t figure out why this little brat wants to take the teacher’s red ballpoint pen.
The mother, who was already furious, raised the red ballpoint pen in her hand and asked the little bastard: "Explain to your mother, why did you take the teacher's red ballpoint pen? Is it because I didn't buy you a pen?"
Before the irrefutable evidence, the little bastard The guy finally said the truth: "I-I-I just like the cartoon pattern on this pen, because all our classmates have such cartoon ballpoint pens. So, I took the teacher's pen away when she wasn't paying attention."
Then, my mother continued to scold you sternly: "Then mom asked you just now? Why did you lie to me and say you didn't? Also, how many times has mom told you that you are not allowed to take anything from others without permission?"
only listens The little bastard timidly replied: "I'm afraid!"
Mom continued to teach her the lesson of hating iron, "Can you get away with lying?"
The father, who was already furious, had already pulled out his belt and teased the boss. My brother pressed him on the coffee table and spanked him hard on his buttocks and said, "Stop talking nonsense, this kid won't have a long memory if he doesn't get spanked."
Immediately, I heard the little bastard howl and beg for mercy: "Wow - wow - wow, Dad, I was wrong. I don’t dare anymore. Mom, save me.” Seeing that the beating was almost over, my mother immediately pulled my father away and said, “Do you still dare?” "Going to take other people's things without permission?"
heard the little bastard sobbing and replied in a low voice: "Don't dare."
"Speak louder, I can't hear you." The father saw the little guy answering the question. He looked distracted and scolded him immediately.
was worried that the little brat would be beaten again, so he immediately followed his father's request and replied loudly again: "I don't dare anymore."
There will definitely be a second time if there is a first time, and worried that the little brat would get into bad habits, his father immediately dug deeper He asked: "Besides taking the teacher's pen, have you taken anything else from other classmates?"
saw the little bastard hesitate for a moment and then replied: "No more."
Before the little guy could finish his words, the father once again pressed the little bastard on the coffee table without any explanation, then picked up the belt in his hand and slapped his butt hard: "No?" If you think about it again, whose correction belt was removed last time? "
It's true that you can't remember well without being beaten. The little brat who was beaten immediately remembered it and replied: "Also, and also took ballpoint pens and correction tapes from four other classmates. "
My heart was bleeding. My father was dizzy at the moment. He really didn't know how he had educated his child like this, but he still had a clear mind and said: "I will buy you a new ballpoint pen and correction tape tomorrow, and take them to school to return them. classmates, and said sorry to them personally. Is it possible to write a letter of apology and give it to the teacher for the things you took? ”
The little guy immediately nodded and replied as if he was pounding garlic: “It can be done!” "
Immediately afterwards, my father reminded me again: "Also, can I take other people's things in the future?
The little bastard immediately replied fluently: "You can't take it." "I'm afraid that if I slow down even half a beat, I'll get beaten again." After
asked these words, Dad let out a long sigh. Although he felt very uncomfortable, he couldn't do it without beating him. We must not be merciful on issues of principle, otherwise it would be Tolerate the adulterer, otherwise it will harm him for the rest of his life. I hope the little brat will remember the lesson after being beaten this time.
In fact, when the little brat took the teacher's ballpoint pen, it was mainly because the pen had the portrait of their favorite cartoon character, and he also asked adults for it during the period. . However, the adults needed the little ones to show off before buying them, but they failed to live up to their expectations and failed to show their excellence, so they definitely missed out on the prize.
Later, they saw that many students could easily get it without any effort. Cartoon character avatar ballpoint pen, I came up with the idea of taking other people's ballpoint pens, and then took the teacher's ballpoint pen. Regarding problems like this, I believe this is also a common concern of many new generation parents. It hurts to hit their children. In my mind, if I don’t fight, I won’t get immediate results. The key is that I still refuse to change despite repeated admonitions. This really worries me!
Especially if you always make principled mistakes like this, if you are soft-hearted and let it go, It will make him take it for granted. If he continues to allow it to develop in an infinite vicious cycle, the situation may become unmanageable in the future. However, always using force to solve the problem is not the answer. Many first-time parents encounter this kind of problem. I almost don’t know how to educate my children.
Most of the time, children lie to avoid responsibility. For example, if they get into trouble, they lie about their scores, etc. Children are too demanding, especially when they make mistakes or perform poorly, and are used to punishing children simply and rudely.
Also, frequent beatings and scoldings will seriously affect the child's physical and mental development. When you hit him for the first time. When he is young, he will feel that he has done something wrong. However, if you hit him frequently and repeatedly without asking the cause and consequences each time, doing this many times will make the child become more and more rebellious. When he gets older, One point, it will be more difficult for parents to discipline them at this time. Therefore, when educating children who love to lie, parents should not beat or scold their children impulsively just because they are angry. Instead, they must communicate well with their children and understand their children’s thoughts. , come up with appropriate ways so that children can correct their bad habit of lying.
Therefore, if you want to change your children's lying behavior, parents must respect their children, appropriately meet their children's normal needs, and adopt acceptance, understanding, and empathy. The way of thinking, becoming friends with children, and setting an example of honesty for children will prevent them from lying
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