"Mom is really happy to have a baby like you." When I said this to my daughter for the first time, a bright smile appeared on her face. Once, when my daughter came back from a painting class, I looked at the obviously perfunctory works. He severely criticized her, "What are you p

"Mom is really happy to have a baby like you"

When I

said this to my daughter for the first time

my daughter's face showed a bright smile

Once my daughter came back from a painting class

I Looking at the obviously perfunctory work

, I severely criticized her.

"What are you painting!

I didn't draw it well at first glance..."

My expression and tone were full of anger

My daughter didn't dare to look at me.

The little movements on her hands kept

falling into my eyes

and I felt that she didn't care

I thought to myself, why is this happening

Other children are not like this...

After that day

my daughter was very disgusted with drawing

I realized

How much harm have your emotions caused to your children?

I didn’t force her

I only apologized for my emotions

The painting class was also stopped for a while

My daughter cried so hard at that time

“Mom, I thought you didn’t love me anymore”

My eyes were wet too

She clearly understood She is my most cherished baby

But she can’t feel my love

So I read a lot of books and asked other mothers for advice

Only then did I know

’s love for children, and I had to be brave enough to speak out

Later, every day my daughter When I wake up from a deep sleep

I will tell her:

"Baby, I love you.

How could I have such a good baby?" My mother is really happy. "

Now my daughter has naturally believed that

her own existence is very precious.

The unexpected gain is that she not only picked up the paintbrush again

, but also grew up in an all-round way

...