Xiaoli has been very troubled recently. Because she learned many principles from family education instructors, but was unable to apply them in practice, and even made the situation worse. She also often fell into anxiety, self-blame, and complaints... After several psychological

Xiaoli has been very troubled recently.

Because she learned many principles from family education instructor , but was unable to apply them in practice, and even made the situation worse.

She also often fell into anxiety, self-blame, and complaints...

After several psychological adjustments, she became calm and accepting.

slowly mastered the tone and attitude when communicating with others.

01

When I got up in the morning, I carefully prepared fish soup noodles for my daughter. I thought my daughter would eat it with relish. Who knew, but I would see my daughter using chopsticks to pick out the fish skin piece by piece, and even pull out the fish skin with her hands.

If it had been before, he would have been furious, furious, and said angrily: I cooked it for you, but it didn’t taste good. I won’t cook it for you next time. Her daughter would look at her with frightened eyes, speechless and scared.

She was uncharacteristically different today. Get a stool and sit next to your daughter, and gently say to your daughter: Baby, if you don’t want to eat it, you can tell your mother, and your mother will pay attention next time and fish out the fish skin. You will have a better appetite when you eat!

The daughter looked at her with a smile, nodded and said: I know, mom, thank you, I will tell you next time.

The daughter started eating happily again. The mother looked at it with a happy smile on her face.

You are gentle to others, and others will be gentle to you .

02

is making breakfast. My father-in-law has returned from a morning run.

picked up the mop and was mopping the floor.

Xiaoli picked up a bucket of water, took it over and said: Dad, get a bucket and put it in a bucket. No need to always go to the bathroom to wash the mop.

If it had been like before, she would definitely have said: I asked you to get a bucket to mop, but she didn't listen and made the bathroom dirty and wet everywhere.

thought to himself: It would be better not to delay.

When my father-in-law saw her speaking so gently, he nodded happily and said yes, yes.

No matter what time it is, no matter who you are, you must maintain respect for others and speak in a pleasant manner.

03

Breakfast is cooked. She shouted: Dad is coming over for breakfast.

Unexpectedly, she came out from doing housework for a while. The breakfast was still there, but my father-in-law cooked breakfast by himself.

If it were in the past, I would complain in my heart: I’ve cooked breakfast for you, but you still haven’t eaten it! Do you still think my cooking is not delicious?

Today, she walked over calmly and asked her father-in-law: Dad, it’s cooked. Why don’t you eat breakfast and still cook breakfast?

Father-in-law smiled and replied: Let's wait until Xiaowei (his son, my husband) gets up to eat.

Oh, so that’s it. My parents all have the same thoughts.

A song suddenly echoed in my mind: When you get old...

Time will not wait for anyone. We just need to treat the people around us well and leave no regrets!

04

Today I understand that learning family education is not just knowledge in books, but also application in life, emotion, parent-child relationship management, speaking well and being gentle.