Behind every unhappy family is a controlling person. Parents regard their children as their own property and suppress them emotionally in the name of "for your own good." How terrible is an education without sympathy and only demands. Children are not containers or carriers to sa

Behind every unfortunate family, there is a very controlling person.

Parents regard their children as their own property and suppress them emotionally in the name of "for your own good". How terrible is an education without sympathy and only demands.

Children are not containers or carriers to satisfy parents’ desires and imaginations.

Children are not clay, and parents can knead them in whatever direction they like.

Children have their own lives. They belong only to themselves, not to their parents or anyone else.

Even parents cannot steal your life.

These are just two stories in the book "Your Children Are Not Your Children". There are seven different stories. Each story here is a fierce battle of life.

Every child in the story, their lives are marked with scars after fighting, but the objects of their struggle are very special, they are all close relatives, especially their mothers.

Although the mothers in the story have different images, they have one thing in common: they are all executioners in the name of love.

Some mothers use their grades as a barometer of their mood. Once their grades are not as good as they want, they become violent and violent; some mothers are selfish and indifferent and regard their children as a burden to their lives; some mothers are extremely controlling and love and care become impossible. The heavy load of abandonment; some mothers are overprotective and forcefully intervene in every aspect of their children's learning and life; other mothers are used to replacing praise with denial and forcing their children to reach a higher level...

Love is a kind of ability and a way of love. We need to keep learning. Whether as parents or children, we will sometimes not work hard enough, sometimes use too much force, and sometimes be deeply hurt by each other, but more often than not, we can put down our posture and seek reconciliation together.