Let’s talk about my life with my second child:
I have had two babies for three years, the first one is two and a half years old, and the second one is six months old. My parents-in-law help me take care of the baby.
At around 6 o'clock in the morning, my second baby woke up on time. My parents-in-law would take my second baby out to play, and I could take a nap. In fact, I couldn't fall asleep at all, so I just closed my eyes and rested for a while.
html At around 7 o'clock, Dabao woke up, and my new day began. I carried Dabao to the bathroom to pee, and then brought Dabao back and got dressed.I wash and wash, and Dabao plays by himself for a while. Most of the time, he stays with me, a child over 2 years old, and there are hundreds of thousands of different age groups. While I wash, I have to answer all kinds of weird questions from Dabao.
I washed and washed Dabao, and then fed Dabao. It took half an hour to feed Dabao, a small bowl of porridge and a boiled egg. Half of my patience had been exhausted after a breakfast.
After eating, Dabao plays by himself for a while, and I eat. Usually after eating, Erbao comes back from playing.
Then, I started taking care of the second baby again, washing his face, making milk, and putting him to sleep. After the second baby fell asleep, my mother-in-law helped to watch.
Dabao is still waiting to go out to play. He is too noisy at home, which affects his sleep. I originally thought that my father-in-law could take the children out and I could do some work, but Dabao didn't want to be with his grandfather, and his father-in-law was reluctant to take care of Dabao.
Okay, I'll take Dabao out to play until he comes back at almost eleven o'clock. At this time, Erbao also woke up.
My parents-in-law were cooking together in the kitchen, and I would not stop for a while.
The meal is ready. I feed Dabao first, and then wait until the whole family has finished eating. Finally it’s my turn to eat. I basically just grab a few mouthfuls of rice and it’s over. I really don’t have much appetite, and Dabao has no appetite. She was crying, waiting for me to breastfeed her.
After feeding the second baby, and then the second baby was born on my hand, I was very sleepy. I stayed up until about 2 o'clock in the afternoon. It was time for the second baby to go to bed. I drank milk to sleep, and I could finally calm down for a while.
couldn't fall asleep when he was most sleepy. Now his drowsiness was not so strong and he couldn't fall asleep for a while. An hour later, Erbao woke up.
Dabao also woke up. My parents-in-law took Dabao and Erbao out to play for an hour. I had an hour of free time.
But within this hour, I need to wash the rice, put it in the rice cooker to cook, collect the clothes of the family on the balcony and put them in their respective wardrobes, and prepare the supplies and clothes for the two children to take a bath at night. .
The next step is the busiest time of the day.
feed Dabao, eat as a family, take the two children out to play, bathe the two children, wash clothes, breastfeed and put them to sleep. After 9 o'clock, both children went to bed, and the noise finally stopped.
No! The second baby also needs night feeding, and wakes up crying 5.6.7.8 times a night. With my parents-in-law helping to take care of me, I can sleep for 6 hours all day long, and I already feel very good.
My father-in-law would often go back to his hometown and stay for 7.8 days before coming back, so my workload would be even greater.
This is the life of my second child. It is like this every day. It is very regular and very monotonous. Every day is very similar, and memory confusion often occurs.
People often tell me that if I wait for another two years, my children will all go to kindergarten. At first, I thought it was like this. After my children have gone to school, they will have their own time.
But it doesn’t seem to be like this. When a child goes to school, it means that the child’s learning career has begun. Tutoring homework, attending tutoring classes, parent-teacher meetings, picking up and dropping off children, a new stage, busyness has begun again, but in a different way. lifestyle pattern.
If you are hesitating whether to have a second child, I advise you to think carefully. Life with a second child will be a great test on the mother's energy, strength, and patience..
If there is no help from the elderly, life will be more difficult if one drags on the other, so be mentally prepared in advance, otherwise you will really collapse.
I am "Come on CD Mom", a mother of two children and an ordinary teacher. I take care of my children while working. I use my spare time to write on the Toutiao platform, share my parenting life, and interpret various aspects of life. Everyone is welcome to follow me and communicate together. study.
