I have a troublesome family of origin. I used to wonder why my parents were so different from others. I was always at a loss as to how to get along with my parents. Until I became a mother, I was afraid that my son would go through this again. Everything about my childhood, after

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I have a troublesome native family.

I used to wonder why my parents were so different from others.

I was always at a loss as to how to get along with my parents. ‍♀️

Until I became a mother,

Because I was afraid that my son would experience what I had experienced in my childhood,

after I resigned from a major Internet company,

I read a lot of parenting books.

finally understood that some native families are "toxic".

will hurt children in "the way they think they love".

✨I realized that I can also "be my own parents",

❤️Only when you know how to love yourself, can you know how to love your children❤️

I spent a day yesterday,

compiled a list of parenting books that I have practiced,

hopes Not only can it help you better educate your children,

can also nourish you ‍

1️⃣0～3 years old

" Positive Discipline " Douban 8.7'

"Growing up with your children is the best education" Douban 8.2'

"Don't yell Don't scream: How to calmly let children cooperate with their parents》Douban 8.1'

2️⃣3～6 years old

《How to cultivate children's social abilities 》Douban 8.2'

"The courage to not discipline" Douban 7.6'

"Cognitive nature" Douban 7.8'

3️⃣After going to elementary school

"Love, Money and Children" Douban 8.1'

"Self-driven Growth" Douban 8.5'

"Examination Brain Science" Douban 8.0'

4️⃣Parents' Self-Awakening

"Parental Pattern" Douban 8.4'

" Rich Dad Poor Dad " Douban 8.3'

" You should fly like a bird to your mountain " Douban 8.7'

Parenting is actually educating oneself

The best time to plant a tree was ten years ago.

The next thing is now.

Grow up with your children,

likes you who have picked up books again

If the above content has inspired you,

✊Remember to like, collect, and forward to cheer you and me up!

I am Chen Ruxia

I have worked in New Oriental | Alibaba | Byte

A mother who is 35 years old and started a freelance career

Focus on personal growth

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