Introduction: Some people may think that the main task of marriage is to pass on the family line, so the secular view believes that couples should have their own children. However, in recent years, there has been a new concept that has been liked by many people, that is, DINK, and the view of comes from the United States. As everyone's thoughts continue to be updated and opened up, some people in the 20th century felt that having children was not the main thing. On the contrary, the quality of life of their children will be affected, and the extra children will also have some impact on couples in their subsequent lives. Under the influence of these reasons, the number of families who choose not to have children is also increasing.
With the spread and exchange of culture, the number of families in China who choose not to have children is gradually increasing. There are only two people living together in a family, and the income from work is used as the cost of living for the two people. However, domestic culture still has certain differences from foreign ones.
You should know that China is relatively traditional. Since ancient times, the concept is to start a family and continue the family line. even thinks that families without children are unfilial to their parents. This concept has been circulating in our country for many years, but even in such a cultural environment, some families still choose not to have children. What is the reason?
In fact, the reason why everyone makes such a decision is mainly due to multiple factors. Although it is easier to have a child, the future development of children cannot be ignored. Not only should children receive a good education, also needs to take time to accompany and tutor children in learning. Some families who don’t want children are because of their financial burdens, so they choose not to have children. Now all walks of life are developing so fast, but their income has not increased with the development of society, and some people are also facing a relatively large economic burden.
In today's society, no matter what you do, you cannot do without money, so the expenses you need for children are not a lot. It can be said that many people cannot afford it. Some people seek help from their parents, but some people still feel that their parents have raised them, and now they have their own family. should no longer rely too much on their parents, so they will be a DINK family.
In addition to the more realistic problems, there is another reason, that is, with the continuous progress of society, various institutional facilities are being implemented and improved, and there is a relatively complete system for the elderly to care for the future. It is precisely for these reasons that some people decide not to have children, and they can also find a nursing home for themselves to care for themselves after they are old.
also avoids the trouble of children's various payments or mortgages every day, and you can live a more relaxed life and enjoy your time. In the eyes of many people, you think that after you have children, the focus of your life will become children, and over time, your life will become more boring. Your life has become more difficult. If you have children, it will be even more difficult, so many people don't want children.
Although in the eyes of many people, there are many benefits of choosing not only to reduce your life pressure, but also to have enough time to enjoy life, but everything is accompanied by pros and cons. and choosing not to children will also have some disadvantages.
50-year-old "Dink" said frankly: I had no foresight in my original thoughts, and now there is no regret medicine
For example, there is really such a family around me. Now they are in their sixties. When they were young, they chose not to have children. Although relatives and friends kept persuading them to have a child during the Spring Festival, they regretted their original decision when they were in their 50s, but it was too late to choose to have children at this age. I believe everyone will be more curious about why they have such a mentality?
In fact, this is also very common nowadays. After just getting married, I am not old. At this time, everyone is focused on their careers. If you want to gain muscles and love your income, you can have a certain amount of capital to enjoy time. However, the passage of time has also made everyone slowly settle down. They have a certain understanding of all kinds of things in society and have a certain life experience.
The increasing age of people has also made everyone change their mentality. has changed from the pursuit of freedom before to the desire to live a stable life now. At this stage, if there are only two adults at home, life will be more boring. Compare with others, your home seems deserted, and then look at others. If there are children at home, it may be noisier.
But the atmosphere is still very lively, and this kind of life looks interesting and energetic. However, families without children may have some small animals, but there will inevitably be a sense of difference between the two. In terms of basic pension, even if the current system has improved greatly, some situations may still have problems and are not as good as expected. If there are no children, this matter will be a relatively difficult problem in the future.
Although many people think that children are a relatively high pressure, There are also many people who are more afraid of marriage because of this. Maybe on some platforms, you will understand how happy some families without children are. But from a long-term perspective, the life of old age in the future will be boring, and you will also face the scene of living alone after losing your partner.
Everyone's life will not be smooth all the time. It is because of these hardships that life is precious. Therefore, we must face some hardships in the future. Although it seems that giving birth and caring for him are not simple now, when you see your children grow up and have your own family in the future, you will also have a certain sense of accomplishment and happiness in your heart. People who choose not to have children may just not want to face these hardships.
Own parents have raised themselves, and they can all do it. Why are children unable to raise their next generation? Although all of this requires certain economic strength, if you still don’t want children after you have certain strength, you can also try it. But since you have certain strength, why are you still worried about the burden of taking care of your children?
