The incidence of depression among expectant mothers during pregnancy is about 10% to 15%, which is a relatively common phenomenon.
Women have a very hard time after pregnancy. When they become strong, they are also very sensitive, and they always have some strange thoughts.
Progesterone will cause the expectant mother to be emotionally unstable. Sometimes, the husband and family will pamper her patiently, but sometimes she will be so helpless that the pregnant woman may cry.
The expectant mother has too many demands during pregnancy, which "forces her husband to cry"
An expectant mother told about her pregnancy experience, and she felt very complicated. Her husband seemed to have endured a lot throughout her pregnancy.
Because my mother had severe pregnancy reactions during pregnancy and was very sensitive to smells, the shower gel my husband used when taking a bath made her very uncomfortable smelling it.
The expectant mother initially felt that her husband's shower gel smelled too strong and asked her husband to switch to soap for bathing. But after her husband changed the soap, she still found it unacceptable.
It is the hot summer, and my husband cannot take a bath happily every day. He feels aggrieved every time he goes there. Being forced to do nothing, would cry loudly every night before going to bed.
The husband was in a very uncomfortable state both physically and mentally, but he had to take care of his wife's emotions. He could only endure it silently, crying every day before he could fall asleep.
I have to say that the father-to-be is indeed a little wronged. But there is nothing that can be done. This expectant mother is because she has pregnancy reactions , which is understandable.
Many pregnant women have even more "weird" ideas, so much so that when they think about it later, they feel a little unreasonable.
How strange are women’s thoughts during pregnancy? See which one looks more like you
Sugar mommies have two babies and have personally experienced how much they change during pregnancy. People who have never been pregnant may feel like watching a video, and people who have experienced it may find their own reflections in it.
"When I was pregnant, I really wanted to take a ride on a motorcycle. My family thought it was too dangerous and disagreed. Finally, I finally persuaded me to go to the amusement park and sit on the carousel "
"When I was pregnant, I felt that I was pregnant. "Daughter, I started to worry about how hard it would be to have a baby in the future. I cried when I thought about it, and ended up giving birth to a son."
I have many similar weird thoughts, and my husband is always by my side when I have thoughts. The expectant mother feels uncomfortable when she is not satisfied, so she tries her best to satisfy the expectant mother, but the husband is very tired.
But in most cases, the husband will let his pregnant wife. After all, pregnancy is very hard, and it would be nice to calm down some emotions.
However, some people think that expectant mothers are making trouble unreasonably, being too pretentious after pregnancy, and using their status to bully others.
In fact, there are very few expectant mothers who truly have a "bullying" mentality. Their thoughts come out of nowhere and it is difficult to control their emotions.
After the pregnancy, hormone levelsgradually return to normal levels. Weird thoughts no longer arise. I can’t bear to recall my behavior during pregnancy and feel a little sorry.
Why do expectant mothers have strange thoughts during pregnancy?
After women become pregnant, they are not only under physical pressure, but also psychological pressure. Coupled with the stimulation of progesterone, the mind becomes more sensitive.
First of all, expectant mothers are always in a nervous mood.
Expectant mothers are always worried about the development of their fetus. Even if the test results are good, she will be anxious. This is a "common problem" of expectant mothers.
When a person feels anxious, whether she is pregnant or not, she will become sensitive and emotionally unstable, and expectant mothers cannot control themselves.
Secondly, expectant mothers need to release their aggrieved emotions.
It is undeniable that expectant mothers are a little bit deliberately "irritating" and want to be loved by those around them.
She especially feels resentful towards her husband, indirectly thinking that it is her husband who made her pregnant so hard, and she will grind her husband to satisfy her own little demands.
But the expectant mother has no ill intentions, but the physical discomfort cannot go away, and no one can take her place in pregnancy. This feeling of being satisfied and pampered can make her more psychologically balanced.
It is very important for a woman to be in a good mood during pregnancy, not only for her own comfort, but also for the personality of the unborn child.
Some studies have found that women who are happy during pregnancy are less likely to suffer from postpartum depression.
Therefore, it is also important to understand the expectant mother and appropriately satisfy her little emotions while ensuring safety.
Expectant fathers may be "forced to cry"? You should also consider your husband’s feelings during pregnancy
Expectant father’s depression is a type of prenatal depression caused by the husband’s pregnancy due to his wife’s pregnancy.
Expectant mothers' moods will change drastically during pregnancy, and their husbands will also experience some anxiety and depression. The father who was forced to cry is one of them.
Expectant mothers and husbands have different reasons for anxiety. Expectant mothers are mostly due to changes in their baby and themselves, while expectant fathers also have their own pressures and grievances.
After expectant mothers become pregnant, their focus is usually not on their husbands, which makes husbands feel left out. Compared with the extremely sweet world of two people before, the expectant father will feel a sense of loss.
Part of the pressure on the expectant father comes from worries about his wife, and the other part is the pressure to support the family. Regardless of whether he is pregnant with a boy or a girl, it means that he will have to work harder in the future.
It is too difficult for some expectant fathers because they cannot adapt to their wives' sensitivity and suspicion. Although his wife works hard, he also has moments of grievance.
Compared with women, men are less good at expressing their emotions . Once he has depression and anxiety, it may become more severe.
Pregnant couples should understand each other. When either party is emotionally unstable, they should provide timely comfort and counseling, and seek help from a doctor when necessary.
Candy Mom’s inner words:
Pregnancy is a test for the relationship between husband and wife. They need to understand and care about each other and solve emotional problems in a timely manner.
The expectant mother is not trying to be annoying . Her husband is also working hard for the small family. Mutual understanding between husband and wife will not only make the pregnancy smoother and the fetus healthier, but the relationship between husband and wife will also become better and better.
[Today’s topic] What strange thoughts do you have during pregnancy?
