My jeans have a hole in them. When I went shopping for groceries today, I took it to the owner of the tailor shop to make up for it.
Don’t think that this is just a small matter, I thought about it repeatedly and tried my best to do a good job of ideological work for myself before successfully entering the tailor shop.
I am afraid of contacting people, and I always feel that there are many bad people in this world, afraid that someone will abduct me or monitor me. Although I knew in my heart that this idea was ridiculous, I still couldn't help but doubt others.
For a long time, my plants and trees are all soldiers, which keeps my mind alive in suspicion and cannot get a good rest.
Now that I have taken medicine, this idea has faded a lot, and people have become lazy. Although I no longer think that others want to harm me, I still feel that it is very troublesome to contact people.
I asked the doctor: Do I have social phobia? The doctor said there is no one at the moment. But I just don’t like socializing. Although I am bored, I feel relieved.
Doctor said this is not possible. I need to contact more people to restore my social functions, otherwise I will find it difficult to gain a foothold in society in the future.
But I really feel tired when I get along with people, my body is tired, and my heart is tired. Isn't it good to be with your parents only? Why do you have to enter society?
I think it’s so quiet now. I don’t understand why I have to step out of this comfort zone. If I can live in the comfort zone for the rest of my life, there is nothing wrong with it, right?
There is a question on Zhihu: Why are young people nowadays unwilling to endure hardships? It lists how much hardships the educated youth suffered from the generation who went to the countryside, and that depression was not so common at that time.
problem points out: Now that the conditions have improved, young people are unwilling to endure hardships. I sneer at this, why do we still endure hardships if the conditions are good? Not a brain disease. Moreover, can endure hardships for the sake of hardship really temper people’s hearts?
Just talk about military training, we have to start military training since junior high school, but in the end we always become formalism. After the military training, everyone is still lazy to live.
So, there is nothing wrong with being able to live in the comfort zone.
Friends like me, do you feel this way?
