"Love, Need to Learn" Chen Haixian 8.

"Love, need to learn"

1 Chen Haixian

8.5 (1123 reviews)

Recommendation (everything):

"Love, need to learn" is a major new work by the famous psychological counseling expert Chen Haixian. The author has incorporated his more than ten years of psychological counseling experience into it and interpreted in detail a journey of intimate relationships that may encounter it. The dilemma ranges from not daring to entering a close relationship to communication difficulties, child nurturing challenges, influence of original family, cheating and separation that may occur after entering an intimate relationship. The author not only asked questions, but also proposed practical methods to help readers learn the methods of love. Solve the problem of intimate relationships and find your own happiness.

"Maybe you should find someone to chat"

Loli Gottlieb

9.0 (31768 reviews)

Recommendation (line):

This is a memoir of a psychotherapist, telling the story that happened in the clinic. In this small confined space, people will show the most authentic and vulnerable side; it is also here that people gain companionship and listening, and valuable awareness, growth and change.

This book shows the process of psychotherapy from the dual perspectives of therapist and the client, making us find that no matter how different the identity and background are, the troubles faced by human beings are actually the same - love and being loved, regret, choice, control, uncertainty, and death are all issues that we must learn together as we all. The pain and life difficulties we encounter in real life can resonate with and find hope in this book.

"What have you experienced"

Bruce D. Perry

8.6 (703 reviews)

Recommendation (everything):

Pain will not disappear out of thin air, and time will not dilute everything

All our trauma, brain and body will remember deeply

This book will change the way you look at life.

Born as human does not mean that we can all grow up smoothly. In the early days of our lives, we may be ignored, belittled, treated indifferently, lack of support and care; in the process of growing up, we may encounter violence, betrayal, control, hurt, break up, divorce, loss of loved ones... These bad events or experiences are called trauma.

These traumas forcefully change our brains, leaving us trapped in the past and unable to get out of it. Everything we go through, shapes who we are today, will define every relationship, every interaction, and every decision we make.

For more than thirty years, Oprah Winfrey and child psychiatrist and neuroscientist Dr. Bruce D. Perry have been discussing trauma, brain, resilience and healing. In this book, they have explained to us the neuroscience logic behind all this with ten private conversations and real cases.