What is Original Family . The original family is the family environment we lived before the age of 18. The family members in the family are the first people we came into the world and came into contact with. Home is our first place to learn. By observing their words and deeds, communication methods, etc., we slowly begin to form an understanding of the world in our hearts.
As we grow up, we will continue our childhood viewpoint and behavioral patterns until we become adults.
What exactly have we learned from our native family? Why are their influence so great?
First, what we learn is related to self-worth. Self-worth is how do we view ourselves? How to evaluate yourself? This budding is how our caregivers treat us after birth. Are we often burst into tears? Does family respond to their children’s desires? Some feelings will affect a person's most basic sense of trust.
Second, I learned interactive communication methods that are influenced by my eyes. Children who are not allowed to express themselves, are often scolded and denied, and are criticized will have a mentality of inferiority and timidity.
Third, what we learn in our family is the rules.
We know that living in society must abide by certain rules, but if the rules in the family remain unchanged from childhood to adulthood, or there are no rules, it will affect a person and cannot integrate into society smoothly.
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