stick to the top star and we won’t get lost
may you have a dream in your heart
have tenderness in your eyes
have philosophy in your mind
●Author| orange ●Source number | Zhengjing Auntie
Today is February 10th, and it’s the annual Spring Festival Gala.
Following the exposure of the party program, young people are looking for their idols.
The mothers are also asking each other: Has anyone been on the Spring Festival Gala?
Time goes back to the CCTV Spring Festival Gala in 1987,
At that time, a young man with long hair and grinning took to the stage.
He sang "The Cloud of Hometown" in 8 minutes "" and "A Fire in Winter" two songs, overnight became the most popular star in China.
He is Fei Xiang.
Everyone who walked through that era has a memory related to Fei Xiang:
"Back then, my dad chased my mother by the three-point look like Fei Xiang."
"My mother was back then. The criterion for choosing a mate is to burn Fei Xiang’s head, but half of Chinese men have their heads burned."
"Me:'Is Fei Xiang really hot at the time?' My mother: "Very! ! !
It is said that there was a jingle back then: "When Fei Xiang turned around, girls from all over the country shed tears. Fei Xiang turned around again, and all the women followed."
In fact, Fei Xiang also went to that Spring Festival Gala, and there have been many more after that. During the year, I couldn't even hear the name.
But whenever the Spring Festival Gala is mentioned, people can't help but think of his stage back then.
Last December, Fei Xiang celebrated his 60th birthday.
He said that he is currently in London. Although he can't go out, he is safe at home. He is still optimistic and ridiculed: starving!
Fei Xiang's old attitude on the photo is beginning to appear, and the wrinkles on his face have also increased.
However, his temperament is still dazzling, and the eyes looking into the camera affectionately are like the male god who disturbed the hearts of thousands of young girls.
But many years ago, Fei Xiang's goal was not to become a singer.
Fei Xiang was born in a Chinese-American combined family. His parents are very talented people and his looks are also very high.
However, when Fei Xiang was a child, he was chubby and spent his entire puberty in obesity.
After graduating from high school, Fei Xiang received a full scholarship to study in the Department of Medicine of the prestigious Stanford University.
"If I follow the conditions at the time, I will become a doctor."
But his sister changed his life goal.
In the interview about Fei Xiang, his sister's story is rarely mentioned.
In fact, his sister Anya is the real music star.
Anya is 7 years older than Fei Xiang and is a very rebellious person.
In the 1970s, just after graduating from high school, she ran to New York, USA alone, and participated in the No Wave sports.
This music movement was responded to by a large number of young people and changed the development trajectory of punk music.
And Anya is one of the most leading female musicians.
But Tian was jealous of Hongyan. At the age of 23, Anya detected cancer.
At that time, Fei Xiang was studying medicine at Stanford University. He will soon become a promising doctor.
But after learning about her sister's condition, Fei Xiang took leave and ran to New York to accompany her sister.
At the last moment of Anya, she said to Fei Xiang: "I really don't want to die, you must live for me."
"Live for my sister", 18-year-old Fei Xiang made a promise.
A year later, following his sister's last wish, he switched careers to study music and studied drama at a special school in New York.
With outstanding appearance, professional learning, and extraordinary talent, Fei Xiang quickly became a "qualified music trainee."
After graduating from New York, 21-year-old Fei Xiang returned to Taiwan.
At this time, he has successfully transformed. He is tall and coordinated, with handsome and stylish features, and his lines are both soft of the Oriental and tough of the Western.
Especially a pair of deep eyes, looking at people seems to discharge.
Because of his excellent appearance, Fei Xiang was discovered by talented female director Zhang Aijia. He appeared in the unit drama "The Performance of Eleven Women" and officially entered the show business circle.
Although there was no splash, Fei Xiang entered the EMI Records and met the gold medal producer Tan Jianchang.
With the help of Tan Jianchang, Fei Xiang released his first album "Wandering" in 1982 and won the Golden Disc Award. The title song "Wandering" became the champion song.
Since then, he has successively released two albums "Ask the Setting Sun" and "Broad Sea and Sky", becoming Taiwan's well-deserved top-tier.
Before he could enjoy the feeling of popularity, a letter from the mainland completely disrupted his life.
In 1985, her mother Bi Lina received a letter from Fei Xiang's grandmother. Only then did she know that her closest relatives had been looking for herself for 40 years.
To help mothers fulfill their dream of reunion,In order to return to his homeland, Fei Xiang resolutely abandoned his career in Taiwan and took his mother back to the interior.
also became the first Taiwanese artist to cross the strait and return to the mainland to develop. After
, at Guangzhou Pacific Audio & Video Company, Fei Xiang published his first solo album "Singing Across the Four Seas" in Mainland China.
Also because of this album, he received an invitation from the director of the Spring Festival Gala Deng Zaijun.
Today everyone thinks that the Spring Festival Gala is a good opportunity to become famous, but for Fei Xiang at the time, it means that he will be completely blocked by the Taiwanese entertainment circle.
At the 1987 Spring Festival Gala, Fei Xiang, wearing a red dress with thick eyebrows, danced and sang:
"You are like a fire in that winter. The raging flames warmed my heart." "_P3p
This fire made him banned by Taiwan for 13 years, and he did not return to Taiwan until 2000 to sing.
In the days of being banned, Fei Xiang bid farewell to the pop music scene and went to New York again to find development in musicals and stage plays.
In 1991, Fei Xiang appeared in the musical "Miss Saigon". Since then, he has taken root in the stage play.
Although there are 8 musical performances every week, it is better than in China In the limelight, Fei Xiang had a bitter life of "incognito" on Broadway.
But he does not regret the Spring Festival Gala that year.
Hong Kong returned in 1997, Fei Xiang re-sang the classic "Clouds in Hometown" at the Great Hall of the People in Beijing.
Faced with the surging fans, he said with emotion: Friends in China have not forgotten me.
Today's Fei Xiang is over 60 years old and has no wife or children.
Fei Xiang had no choice but to express the public's concern for his emotional life: Maybe it was because of no fate!
But in fact, Fei Xiang had three relationships.
When Fei Xiang first entered the Taiwanese entertainment industry,After being introduced by a friend, I met Ye Qianwen, who also just entered the circle.
Since Ye Qianwen has lived in Canada since she was a child, she has a great ideological gap with the locals in Taiwan.
And because Fei Xiang has lived in the United States since he was a child, he has been more open-minded, so the two of them have changed from being close friends who talk about everything to close lovers.
But when everyone praised their love, Fei Xiang's mother strongly opposed it.
She said that Fei Xiang's acting career has just started, and love will affect his son's future.
However, a reporter broke the news that Fei Xiang’s mother didn’t like Ye Qianwen because she felt that the Taiwanese talented woman Hu Yinmeng, who was as famous as Lin Qingxia, was Fei Xiang’s home.
Fei Xiang's mother once publicly said to Ye Qianwen: "My daughter-in-law is Lin Qingxia."
Because she can't stand Fei Xiang's cold words, and Fei Xiang has always been evasive,
finally parted ways.
After breaking up with Ye Qianwen, Fei Xiang focused on his career and met Yang Lan, who had studied in the United States.
At that time, Yang Lan was Fei Xiang's number one fan, and Fei Xiang had been taking care of her in the United States.
sparked a spark.
But after calming down, Yang Lan found out that she only admired Fei Xiang and had no love.
So after some conversation, the two decided to return to their friendship.
Not long after Fei Xiang broke up with Yang Lan, Hu Yinmeng confessed to Fei Xiang,
Because Fei Xiang's mother herself liked Hu Yinmeng very much, the two came together.
But it is precisely because the two people are too familiar with each other, there is no new topic after being together,
finally the relationship can only end without a disease.
Although said: "Marriage matters,My parents’ order, the matchmaker’s words".
But looking at Fei Xiang, who has not been married because of his intervention twice, I don’t know how his mother feels.
What's more, Fei Xiang’s parents divorced very early _P3p
To some extent, Fei Xiang’s mother is actually a loser in the marriage, and her interference with Fei Xiang may not have the desired effect.
instead, the original marriage between two people has become A arena of three people.
In fact, in many families, the boundaries of family relationships are not clear.
Data surveys show that since 2009, the divorce rate of the "only generation" born in the 1980s has been increasing. Among them, 70% is caused by unreasonable interference by both parents.
After many people get married, their parents still intervene too much, which leads to disharmony between the couples and even divorces.
There are parents who don’t know how to quit.
It is a child who does not know the rejection.
Although the original intention is to hope that the son can find someone with better conditions, but the emotional matter is reluctant to come.
In addition, parents interfere too much with their children, but it is more likely to cause Children lose their judgment on their own marriage.
Family affection is not just a surrender, but also a replacement.
A person who can protect his lover will protect the person who loves him.
So sometimes, parents are appropriate Give up some space for children to have more happiness.
However, Fei Xiang is very open to marriage. He has two cats to accompany him.
One of the black and white cats was adopted not long ago.
He said on the social platform that because of the special period of the whole year, he decided to adopt this cat in order to create some highlights in his life.
Some netizens asked Fei Xiang: regret it?
Fei Xiang I replied: I don’t regret it, because I have experienced all the things I should do in life.
There is a sentence in Fei Xiang’s Weibo message:
is this person,Facing the years of Lin Li, he used his understatement to explain his rich and colorful life!
Looking at his face, he suddenly realized that time is nothing, as long as he is there, the road is far away, and the future has just come!
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