Introduction
People before
always like to talk about raising children to prevent old age, but in real life, how many sons support their parents? When a person arrives, he will more or less feel helpless. For that person in his later years, is it better to live in a nursing home or a home with his children?
Grandma Tang
I am definitely not willing to live in a nursing home, but my son always likes to send me to a nursing home. He also said that they have no time to take care of my old age. They have to work hard for their own lives. I am in their home. Will delay them.
Seriously, I feel very sad to hear my son say this. I only have one son myself. After my wife passed away, I was reluctant to eat and dress, so I brought him up.
thought I could rely on him in my old age. After all, I really paid a lot for him, but now I am a burden to him. He would rather send me to a nursing home rather than stay at their home .
I really feel very helpless now. I used to think that raising a child must be able to prevent old age, but now I really don’t enjoy the care and care of my son. I just feel that he wants to shirk responsibility.
Before, when my wife was there, he said that I should keep more pension funds for myself so that I could leave a way out for my old age, but I always felt that I had a son, so I don’t need to worry about this, but now he puts my money After spending it, he hated me.
is getting old. It must be because he thinks it is good to live in his son's house, but my son does not want me to live with him. They only think that I am a trouble, and they want to throw me into a nursing home to take care of others.
Uncle Li
My wife has passed away, so I haven't always lived alone, mainly because I don't want to disturb my son's life. Seriously, I definitely think it's better to live with my son, but I'm really afraid that they will have conflicts because of me. When
was young, I didn’t want to add any trouble to my son. Now it’s the same when I’m old. Although it’s good to live with him, he will also be rejected.
I have already figured it out myself now. If I can move now, I will live by myself for the time being. I can’t move it later. If my son is willing to take care of it, I will follow my son. If he is not willing to take care of it, I will let him send it. I go to a nursing home.
Actually tells the truth, in old age, many things are involuntary. As an old man, I definitely want to get together as a family and live a harmonious life, but young people only find the old man troublesome.
After my son got married, my daughter-in-law made it clear that she did not want to live with me, fearing that the living habits of our old family members would not be able to get along with them, and even that there would be conflicts between us.
I am slowly looking away now. Anyway, I have reached this point. I really don’t know how many years I have left to go. One step is one step. I don’t want to care too much and feel tired.
Concluding remarks
Most elderly people like to live with their sons in their later years. After all, people will feel lonely in their later years. Even if living with their sons is dull, they will feel very relieved. When a person is old, what I like most to see is my family harmony, and I don't want to see quarrels.
