Many people only look at the results. They feel that the failure of a marriage to start and end is the greatest misfortune. However, although some couples are not divorced, they are stuck in quarrels and conflicts for a long time. An unhappy marriage will seriously affect our lives, and whether a marriage is happy can actually be seen in many ways. Most people have not discovered that, in fact, a marriage is good or not, just look at their children to know.
If a child has a cheerful and optimistic personality, it means that he lives in a healthy family environment. His parents must get along well and let the child grow up in a loving family, so he can keep the child’s innocence and purity. See all the beauty in the world.
If a child is timid and cowardly, and feels inferior to outsiders, it means that he has not gained enough warmth and love in the growing environment. Most of these children have parents with bad feelings. It is very possible that the parents always quarrel in front of the children, making the children often in fear.
Children’s ideas are very simple. They don’t understand the adult world. When their parents quarrel, they feel that it’s their fault and therefore feel self-blame. Over time, they lose their self-confidence. They also look forward to things, for fear of doing something wrong. The parents are not happy.
Some parents have not been able to notice after hurting their children, causing their children to gradually stereotype under the influence of the accumulation of time. When they perceive their children’s personality defects, it is too late to correct them, and they usually end up with it. Did not realize that it was my own problem.
Native families often affect the children’s life. Children who grow up in an unhealthy family atmosphere not only have personality defects, but also don’t know how to deal with an intimate relationship. They don’t have a happy childhood, and it’s hard to pursue happiness after they grow up. .
believes that parents love their children, but parents often only see the importance of learning and ignore the impact of family on their children. Parents’ education is sometimes much more important than school education.
Children’s growth needs a good environment. Parents should pay attention to their children’s mental health. Even if the relationship between husband and wife is not harmonious, don’t show it in front of children. After all, parents are the world of children. If the relationship between parents is not good, the children’s life Nor will it be happy.
