"After all, I've loved it. Are you embarrassed to ask for thirty thousand dollars?"

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"Thirty thousand dollars still want to go back, your family is crazy? I have been with you for so many years, is the relationship not worth these 30,000 yuan Money?"

"I have retired, we have nothing to do, even if you have to pay back 300 yuan, I have been with you for so many years, and I have paid a lot, how can this count?"

Song Han sent me this In the chat record, she said that she broke up and saw her character. This time she broke up and let her see the essence of a person clearly. She was very thankful that she made this choice, otherwise she would regret it in her life.

Two years ago, Song Han and her boyfriend met on the subway. At that time Song Han just looked down at the phone, and didn't realize that there was a boy watching him. When he got to the station, Song Han was about to go down. Hold on.

Song Han turned around and saw a big boy with a shy smile looking at her expectantly. She couldn't bear to refuse, and she missed the station, so let's add it, which is also a kind of fate. One week after adding

, the other party did not send a message to Song Han. Song Han also gradually forgot about this matter, until a month later, the other party sent a message, and the conversation lasted half a year.

After half a year, the two people met again. This time they met to confirm their relationship and chose to live together. Song Han said that her boyfriend's love for her is hidden in all the details.

boyfriend remembers her menstrual period. No matter how busy he is during those few days, he will make Song Han a cup of brown sugar water after returning home, and warm the waist and belly warm things up next to her. When shopping for

, Song Han casually said things he liked, and he could always remember them firmly and surprise her the next day. Within his power, he always wanted to treat Song Han well.

Sometimes Song Han made a loving breakfast for him, accidentally cut his hand, and the blood didn't flow out and she didn't feel anything. He would take the band-aids in time for fear of bleeding.

No matter how late, no matter how busy, Song Han will send him a WeChat message, even if he can’t see it at the time, he will definitely reply as soon as he finishes his work, not like most men, he didn’t see it, or an excuse to see. When it was too late, I didn't bother to go back.

Song Han suddenly became unhappy, and he wouldn't ask her "what's the matter?" or "what's the matter with you?" like a straight man, he would do everything possible to make Song Han happy. All the details and all the love of

made Song Han feel warm and a great sense of security. Such a man deserves her love with all her strength.

But there was so much love and happiness at that time, but later it was so sad. After talking about love for a year and a half, I thought I would be able to cultivate a positive result, but I got stuck in the last step.

Song Han feels that if such a man wants to marry her, he should not care about the test his parents put on him, but she was wrong.

The day the parents met, the two wanted to get engaged. Therefore, according to the custom, the man has prepared 30,000 yuan, which is regarded as the fixed kiss money. If the man puts out the 30,000 yuan, it means he likes the woman and is willing to fulfill the two young people. If he does not put out the 30,000 yuan, there will still be some dissatisfaction and need to run in. During the meal, the man took out the 30,000 yuan, Song Han was very happy in heart, and her boyfriend was also very happy. But then, Song Han’s mother said the request of the woman’s family: “We don’t ask much. We add Xiaohan’s name to the wedding room, and the car is directly under Xiaohan’s name. We will marry 100,000 yuan to Xiaohan. As for the bride price, If you are willing to come out, and if you don’t want us to do it, you don’t want to force it. Just do your best.” Song Han’s mother’s remarks seemed okay to Song Han, but she saw the face of the man’s parents changed, and she also saw her boyfriend’s The face is wrong. The man’s parents played a round and said that these can be said later. Today is to meet first, in time. The meal of

ended in an awkward atmosphere. After Song Han and her boyfriend returned, her boyfriend couldn’t help but say what was in his heart: "Song Han, does your mother mean what you mean? What does your family mean? Wishful calculations are very clear. In your name, the car is yours, everything is yours? Why don't you say anything about the gift, the house is nearly a million, you still have the face to be gifted."

Song Han was shocked, this is the one who is good to himself Man? Why are you so pretentious now? She retorted: "My mother gave us a dowry of 100,000." The boyfriend

continued."The one hundred thousand yuan is also given to you. What does it have to do with us?"

Song Han still did not give up, saying: "Give it to me is equivalent to giving it to our family. I will not take it for myself and keep it private. Get up. What's wrong with you?"

boyfriend said: "I don't agree to add your name to the house, because I didn't take a penny for this house. My parents took it all and spent their money to write your name. I can’t bear it. I can’t bear your name on the car. My sister bought the car for me. She will be sad if you write your name. If your family is willing, we will give out one hundred thousand beauties."

After hearing these words, Song Han My heart almost collapsed. Her boyfriend turned out to be such a caregiver, how she hadn't noticed before. She began to hesitate whether such a person is worth marrying by herself.

was hesitating, her mother told her, otherwise, she should mention the breakup and see how the other party reacts.

As a result, when Song Han proposed to break up, her boyfriend only said one sentence: "Okay, then return the 30,000 yuan to me." That was the sentence

, which made Song Han feel cold. How sad and sad that I used to rely on and trust the man in front of me now.

It turns out that no matter how good the relationship is, the person who loves you again can be so unfeeling, so indifferent and selfish in the face of financial interests. But at the same time, she was very fortunate that she broke up and broke up, otherwise she would find these problems after she really married him in the future, and it would be too late to regret.

The phrase "break up to meet character" is right. Some people are like this. When you love you, everything you say is right. When you don’t love you, everything you do is wrong.

Of course, there are many loves in this world that cannot compete with money and material things, but not all loves are like this. This can only show one problem, that is, this relationship does not really belong to you.

What is true love? Probably, even in the most difficult times, I am willing to work with you for the rest of my life. When you encounter emotionally seemingly difficult hurdles, don't regret, don't be discouraged, don't be afraid, be loyal to your choice, and when you pass, you will usher in true happiness.

Losing is not terrible, the terrible thing is that you are afraid to lose and dare not start. May all feelings have a good end.

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