Marriage must be built on a certain emotional basis. If two people who do not know each other become husband and wife for some reason, the possibility of unhappy marriage is very high. Don’t get married for the sake of getting married. On the one hand, getting married is for the purpose of living together, and on the other hand, you need two people to have resonance. Mr. Xu from
Luohe asked reporters for help. In July this year, his sister-in-law introduced him to a woman who had a child, but she had not obtained a certificate. After he met the woman, they thought each other was okay, so he got ready to get married. The family was still very happy. While Zhang Luo got married, they gave the woman a betrothal gift and gave her family members more than 20,000 yuan.
Mr. Xu said that on the day of obtaining the certificate, he and his fiancee went to collect the certificate. As a result, a basin of cold water was poured on his head. The staff of the Civil Affairs Bureau said that his fiancee was already married. He was too angry at the time and got married happily, but he became a third party instead. In order to understand the truth, the reporter accompanied Mr. Xu to the woman's home. The father of the wife of
said that he was also very useless, and he had no idea that his daughter had received a marriage certificate. His daughter was flawed in Chile. He didn't know how the former son-in-law took his daughter to obtain the certificate, and the daughter never said. It was only when my daughter and Xiao Xu went to get the certificate. He has filed a lawsuit in the court, and the former son-in-law has not been in touch for 7 years. Mr. Xu believes that it is impossible for parents to be ignorant of the daughter's marriage, and suspect that the marriage history is deliberately concealed. The mother of the woman
said that for this kind of marriage, all relatives were notified and gifts were also given. There is no need to lose this person for more than 10,000 yuan. Mr. Xu was also very aggrieved, saying that his colleagues joked that he was a third party. If he made it clear at the time, how could this happen. The father of
approves Xiao Xu and hopes that Xiao Xu can wait for some time to help him deal with the divorce of his daughter. Mr. Xu also didn't want to continue marrying the woman, he just wanted to return his bride price. The woman’s family members have already refunded 10,000 yuan, and there is still 6,000 yuan. Because the wedding photos have been taken, there are some other expenses. After mediation by the reporter, the two parties agreed to sit down and negotiate. The
woman’s parents did not deliberately deceive. Since Mr. Xu is unwilling to continue getting married, the two families sat down and negotiated a little money. I hope both parties can find their own happiness.
