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I used to think that it’s okay to have enough water and love. Money doesn’t matter, but I have really experienced some things. People who have seen me find that my previous thoughts are very different. naive.
Like those loves that only have wind, snow and moon, most of them are in fairy tales. After experiencing reality, true love is nothing but firewood.
Since we are going to be together, we have to solve the most basic practical problems. Love without money cannot be supported. Most feelings start with love, but they end with life.
If they are different from each other in terms of money, they will not live together. Regardless of the relationship, being rich is the greatest sense of security, and you can see what a person wants through the attitude of spending money for you.
In reality, money is the best test of people's hearts. People who love you will be willing to spend money for you, while those who say they love you will become stingy and unsparing.
To choose a life partner, you must choose the one who truly loves you and is willing to give for you.
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Actually, in real life, I have seen a lot of stories about the fact that money will not come together eventually.
are mostly girls. They see the reality clearly in love. I thought I could move someone with my sincerity, but I didn't expect that I just moved myself.
Like the feeling of being together for several years, five years of youth is no match for the local household registration. After being together for a few years, I didn't even have a decent gift. In the end, I was said to worship money.
Stories like this are everywhere. Many people feel that the other person wants too much because they are unwilling to give. After all, it’s just that they don’t love that much. How can they do that for the person they truly love.
Two days ago, I thought of a message from a girl backstage, saying that I have been with my boyfriend for three years.
For three years, I have always played a considerate girlfriend, thinking about everything for her boyfriend, and being independent, not expecting anything from her boyfriend, but this time she was really disappointed.
I found a necklace for shopping, which I have always wanted to buy, and it is not too expensive.
So casually asked her boyfriend, why don't you buy it for me? As soon as I finished talking, my boyfriend said he likes to buy it by himself. You are not without money.
She has money and independence, but she also longs for her boyfriend's love. After being together for three years, her boyfriend has not even given her a decent gift, although she has never asked for it, but her boyfriend has never given it either , She recognized the reality and proposed to break up.
I have to say that a man who is reluctant to spend money for you does not love you so much, because for a man, where his money is spent, love is there.
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Maybe, in real life, there will be such a voice, a woman talks about money is reality, she worships money, she wants money .
I have to say that only men who are unwilling to spend money will think women are material. If a woman doesn't want money, a man would want it.
Men don’t like material women, they think they only look at money, too superficial, and only love themselves; but men who are reluctant to spend money for their women, to put it bluntly, he only loves themselves.
And if we want to live a life, we need money, and sometimes we need money to express a sense of ritual. In a life without money, no matter how deep love is, it will be smoothed out by reality.
Why do you say that good love must talk about money? Because when there is no money, you can't live the life you want. If you have money, you can buy a nest of your own. Even if you feel wronged, you have a place to vent.
For love and marriage, money is like a foundation; love without a foundation is like sand, and it disappears before the wind blows. The love that doesn't talk about money is finally divided between Lao and Yan, and finally it is cheaper and others wronged themselves.
The so-called love, doesn’t it mean that although I don’t have much, I will give it all to you? As long as you want, as long as I have; give my best and do my best.
In fact, for many girls, she doesn't care how much money you spend for her, but cares more about your attitude toward spending money for her. After all, love needs to be expressed by action, no matter how well you say it, there is no real action to be powerful.
If a man feels that talking about money in love is too vulgar, it is not because the money itself is vulgar, but his love is too unearthed. Talking about money in love and marriage, the best proof of love.
all say that a man who spends money for you may not love you, and a man who does not spend money for you must not love you. Although this is a bit one-sided, it must be said that it is very real. Real life requires performance. And money is the most direct way.
Summary:
warns women, don’t foolishly believe in your true contribution, you can exchange it for the other's cherishment. A person who is reluctant to spend money for you, give up as soon as possible, he just doesn't love you.
A good love is to spend money on you, even if he doesn't have much money, it is also his heart.
The attitude that a man spends for you is the degree to which he loves you, and he can know your position in his heart.
If love is not implemented in dressing, eating, sleeping, counting money... these real life will not last long. Women must recognize reality and see the people around them. To love and give.
