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Secret love is probably the most sad kind of feeling in the world. The kind of sour feeling that you like someone in your heart but dare not get close to you easily, and can only quietly be secretly happy in your heart. People who have never experienced it will never understand it.
Perhaps many people will think that the word "secret love" is far away from men, and this delicate and bitter feeling should only exist in the heart of a woman.
But in fact, men will also have a crush on them, and they will not dare to confess their love because they are not confident enough. They can only love and wait silently.
Of course, the difference between a woman's crush is that when a man secretly loves a woman, although he doesn't say it, he will always prove his heart through some behaviors.
This is because thoughts determine behavior. Many times, loving someone is unable to control your own behavior.
When he has a crush on you, he will not be able to control his behavior.
Men nowadays are very smart. They will not easily express their true feelings until they are fully confident of taking you.
Although he doesn't say it, there are still some suggestive behaviors that will make you notice some clues.
Three experienced women tell you that if a man has these behaviors that go beyond the boundaries, it means that he has a crush on you, which is true.
Zhong Xinyang, 26 years old, white-collar worker: Even if a man has a crush on you, he still can't help but care about you, and you can feel it.
If our company undertakes a large project, it often works overtime until very late, and I live a more distant place, so I am still quite afraid when I go home.
Once, I accidentally said something in front of my colleague, and I didn’t know how he knew it.
So, after we finished working overtime, he came to me and told me to go to my house to go to a party and ask me to take his ride.
I was very happy the first time because I happened to be a little scared, so I was not afraid if I had a colleague there.
He sent me to the entrance of the community and asked me to go up as soon as possible and go to bed early. He went to the party.
At that time, I thought this man was really considerate. He could be so considerate to a female colleague like me, and he would definitely be better to his girlfriend.
Over time, I found that as long as I work one-up late, he always says he has something to go to my house and takes me home by the way, so I feel a little suspicious.
I don’t think it’s possible that it’s so coincidental. Every time it’s a problem, I’ll send me home.
I have some doubts and doubts whether he likes me, but I didn't say it explicitly.
On the way to give me the last time, I handed me a box of snacks. It looked quite expensive, but he said he bought it casually and asked me to cushion my belly.
When I returned home, I thought about it carefully and found that I had never mentioned my address in front of him, and I didn't tell him on the way, so he could just drive to the entrance of the community.
plus the so-called "coincidences" again and again made me suspect that he liked me and deliberately created opportunities to contact me.
Jiang Jiawen, 25 years old, copywriting: A man who has a crush on you must especially want to contact you and show his presence in front of you, so he will inevitably get close to you. In the company
, a male colleague kept talking to me, especially when he was having a meal, he would go to my table.
When we talk about gossip, he will also participate and chat with us.
At the beginning, I thought he had something wrong with it. When we didn't invite him, we sat down on our own without any politeness.
But gradually I found that others are actually quite funny and have a good personality, but it was just that it was too abrupt when I first came into contact.
Moreover, we made an appointment to go out to play, and he also asked us to take him, saying that we don’t have friends who can play these together.
We took him out to play obediently, and he would take good care of us, I think it is quite good.
Moreover, he would sit next to me every time, saying that he was not very familiar with me and asked me to take him with him, and I also act like a tomboy.
When he was resting on the weekend, he sent me a message to say hello early, and he woke me up several times.
often chat with me and even send me food. I am very proactive and enthusiastic.
If I can't even feel it, then I'm too slow. He must like me, but I'm embarrassed to say it out.
Liu Mengdan, 24 years old, student: It should be very kind to you and considerate, appearing when you are the most vulnerable.
When I was in college, I met a classmate from the same school while playing outside, so I added contact information to each other. After
, we often play mahjong together at school, play werewolf killing, etc., and we are more familiar with each other.
It was around the Qingming Festival. It rained frequently and I caught a cold. It was quite serious and I didn’t want to move while lying in bed.
I happened to be chatting with him at the time and talked about this situation. Unexpectedly, he prepared a great surprise.
At noon, when my roommate came back, he brought me a pack of medicine, a few boxes of milk and a little soft bread.
I asked her why she remembered to buy me medicine, but she said it was not her, so she said it was the boy who asked her to give it to me.
At that time, I was really a little moved. I was lying in bed without any strength and was particularly fragile. Suddenly, someone was so kind to you. I would remember it for a long time.
plus, I thought that he didn't know my roommate, but he must have taken some effort to deliver the medicine to her.
Later, he confessed to me, but because he was about to graduate, he was not together due to reality.
But as long as I think of this story, my heart will still be warm. There was a person who once had such a crush on me.
Time Emotional Class:
Someone said: If the secret lover is dumb, then the person who is loved is blind.
This is indeed the state of many people in love. When a man has a crush on him, he will not say it with his mouth, and the woman cannot see the man's love, which ultimately leads to the two missing.
In fact, a man has a crush on you, and although he has not said it explicitly, he will tell you with his actions.
or, he is close to you and wants to play with you;
or, he is turning around and treating you well, making you feel very secure;
or, he appears when you need it most, giving you full comfort.
behaviors are all manifestations of his crush on you, so don’t be foolish and don’t understand.
You should know that a man’s patience is limited. If you can’t feel his love for a long time, then he will simply think that you look down on him.
