The family has many brothers and sisters, and they are somewhat more competitive in their hearts. They not only have to compare their own achievements, but also the family situation of their married wife.
The sister-in-law whom the two brothers married into had 4-5 children at home, so of course there were not many dowry. At that time, there were usually 8 quilts, or 12 at that time. I had 6 quilts and 2 blankets, a sewing machine, a four-horn recorder, and pots, pans, jars and jars. Now, these are not worth it. It was OK in 1984.
My brother-in-law has been married for more than 9 years, and I am looking for a daughter who is the only one. After four months of negotiation, the woman proposed to get married. We are still envious of him. Has the honest man been lucky? I remember that the woman used a small truck with two meals to get married. She had more dowry than us. They got married or not, and they rented a house outside. The dowry car stopped at the door of the house and drove away, probably to let us see what was in the car.
Unexpectedly, his wife was hospitalized for 28 days after marriage. He didn't know that, and two days later, he decided to have surgery. The hospital wanted to recover the money and asked him to send the money. He realized that he had been deceived. It turned out that his old woman had uterine fibroids, and four fibroids of varying sizes. She bleeds every time she had menstruation, so she had to undergo surgery and never had a child in her life.
My brother-in-law once drank too much and said: I thought I had picked up a wallet, but I didn’t expect that this wallet didn’t contain money, and it was all filled with medicine. Haha, so there will be no pie falling from the sky, but some people just don’t believe it and have to hit the south wall before turning back. Not everything can be saved, especially in marriage, there are few people who can get married and say divorce.
Usually this brother-in-law is very sensible. He pays all the salary he receives to his mother-in-law for use. The money for marriage is borrowed. The mother-in-law agreed to help him pay it back together. Later, because she found someone who would not have children, the mother-in-law overturned the promise to repay the debt together. From this point of view, no one can believe anyone's words. Only herself, only she is the person who lives on.
I wonder if you have heard this saying: It is better to have a father or a mother than to have a father or a mother, and it is better to have a wife or a wife. Friends, do you agree with me? Please leave your thoughts and comments in the comments. Bye
