First ask everyone a question, for example, if you hate someone very much, should you resolutely refuse to interact with him or go against him? In fact, this question is difficult to answer, because everyone is different in their behavior. Some people may be more aware of things. Even if they hate each other, they will greet each other with a smile, but they have no contact with each other in private. This is a wise man! Also, it is just a point-to-head, and you won’t give up until you fight for the best. This is a fool. There is also the fact that I will never interact with people I hate.
In fact, the three types mentioned above are the most rational. Because being a human being is essentially a continuous sublimation of oneself. It is impossible for everyone to agree with everything you do and every word you say. A few close friends in a person's life are enough, and there is no need to waste time on ineffective social interaction.
As the saying goes: The great way is simple, and the great enlightenment does not speak. Even if sees a person clearly, there is no need to expose him regardless of the occasion; if you see something clearly, there is no need to expose it in one word. Just be sure to understand in your heart that everyone can be at peace. Sometimes it is with that layer of window paper that everyone will have room to play.
Sometimes, you would rather be less taciturn than speak easily. You know, there is nothing wrong with the trouble coming from the mouth, and it is best to have some words rotten in your stomach. Learn to shut up for three years and learn to speak all your life. Not everything is spoken by mouth. As long as people love gossip, no matter in the company or in life, no matter how good a person is, there will be someone who will gossip behind his back.
People have different ideas, so there is no need to be strongly integrated. Not only is it a waste of time, but it also consumes your energy. You must recognize the fact that a tiger will not be with a sheep; an eagle will not be with a sparrow. As a person, he will continue to walk along his own path. If you want to achieve something, you must make a difference. Don’t turn back just because there are “dogs” barking on the road.
has different levels, different values and different sense of values, and naturally there will be distance. Believe that you should never argue with those unreasonable and hypocritical people, and in the end, the only lessons of grief will be received. If a person lives for decades, instead of wasting time on unworthy people, it is better to work hard to enrich himself and strengthen himself!
As the saying goes: It is better to offend a gentleman than to offend villains. Because villains are a hundred times more dangerous than gentlemen, the best way to treat villains is not to offend or get close to each other, respect each other as guests, and greet them with a smile. A person's growth is a process of hard work.
You have to think about it. Since you can hold on to your meal, you must also hold on to your anger. It’s boring to get involved in things that are not worth it; it’s not very meaningful to argue too much with villains; it’s a worrying thing to communicate with people with different ideas, so just do your best!
