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Men and women are either friends with pure relationships or lovers who are in love. The former is pure friendship, while the latter is deeply in love, and the two have completely different natures and differences.
However, in life, many people confuse the two, which becomes what we call ambiguity.
Ambiguous is free between friendship and love. Although there is no confirmation of a romantic relationship, they will get along like lovers. However, both parties do not admit it and still declare to the public: they are just ordinary friends.
In fact, we all know each other well, how could we just be ordinary friends?
Starting from two people sharing the following three things, the relationship cannot be pure. No matter how you explain or hide it, it cannot cover up the fact that the relationship has deteriorated.
1: Share a water cup to drink water, which means that the relationship is so good that it is not distinguished from each other
Water cup is a personal item, and even between parents and siblings, they will not share a water cup at will. On the one hand, it is a hygiene and safety issue, and on the other hand, it is related to the sense of boundaries between personal privacy and relationships.
Whether it is considered practical or psychological, it is impossible to share a cup of water to drink water.
However, couples or couples sometimes don’t care about these.
They are so good that they don’t know each other, and they no longer care about many details. Unless one of them has a cleanliness, they often don’t mind sharing a water cup, a pair of chopsticks, a bowl, etc., otherwise how can they eat and live together?
If two friends of the opposite sex who are not sure of their relationship will do something that only couples or couples will do, it means that the two are having an ambiguous relationship.
and sharing a water cup is actually a proof of the extraordinary relationship.
2: Use a towel to wipe your face together, which means that you have long been intimate with each other
Compared to water cups, towels are relatively more private and are generally only placed in the bathroom at home. Think about it carefully, under what circumstances will two people share a bathroom and share the same towel?
The answer is that one party often goes in and out of the other party's home, or has already lived together.
If it has reached this point, then it is unnecessary to emphasize the purity of each other's relationship. When will the relationship be published, it may be just a matter of time.
After all, this is a foregone conclusion.
If you are just a simple friend of the opposite sex, you will never cross the line no matter what. Not to mention sharing a bathroom or sharing the same towel, it is impossible to go in and out of each other's home alone, because this will make people misunderstand and make each other's relationship awkward.
Adults will still have common sense and self-consciousness, unless you don’t care, it means that you are moved and your thoughts about her are no longer simple, so you wish others misunderstand it.
3: Share all the time between each other, be alone frequently, and even spend the night together like a couple
Men and women often stay alone frequently before formally establishing a relationship. They will use this period of time to increase their understanding, make their relationship warm up quickly, and enjoy this ambiguous hazy and sweet feeling.
They clearly love each other, but no one exposes them.
has not yet confirmed a relationship, and can still enjoy the freedom to be single, but like a couple in love, you can do things that only couples can do and say things that only couples can say.
not only often stay alone, but sometimes they also spend the night together. Regardless of whether there is a substantial relationship, it means that the relationship between the two people cannot be pure.
and sharing all the time between each other is also an important evidence of ambiguity. This shows that you have long regarded the other person as the most important person in your heart, otherwise you will even feel it is difficult to talk. How could you enjoy it?
Some people say that ambiguity hurts others and yourself. This is because two people clearly love each other, but neither of them is willing to be responsible. After a long time, one of them becomes serious and the other gives up, so this relationship is destined to end with a tragedy.
This reminds us not to be ambiguous easily, unless you are sure of the other person's character or can afford to lose, it will be difficult to have a good ending.
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