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Birth and raising children is not a simple matter. Parents not only need to take care of their children’s daily life, but also care about their children’s education and growth, and at the same time adults have to work , There are still many tedious things to deal with. Under the pressure of various things, many families will have various problems, so how should the husband and wife deal with it?
The latest reality show "Why are you so good-looking" has attracted the attention and heated discussion of many netizens. Firstly, because this show "imitates" a foreign reality show, and secondly because of the main theme of this show. The content is quite different from the original one-many women who have been sent for transformation have no problem in themselves, but they have to be transformed into "stereotyped" women by the show.
In the second episode of the show, the fashion transformation team ushered in the second experiencer. Her identity is quite special because she is the mother of quadruplets. It was Bao Ma’s husband who sought help from the program group. He said that before giving birth, his wife had short hair, fair skin and delicate life, and looked youthful.
After three years of giving birth, my wife now looks like she is a teenager, and she is unkempt all day long. I hope that the show crew can reform his wife and get rid of these bad habits. In addition, the husband complained in the show that the intimate relationship between husband and wife should be based on parent-child relationship, and hoped that his wife could relieve the anxiety of taking children and consider herself more.
However, many netizens are very angry when they see this, especially those who are mothers: "The wife is getting more and more haggard after giving birth to the child, but the husband is blindly thinking of forcing his wife to change back to her original appearance. But I don’t even think about why it became like this! As long as a husband knows how to give his wife more help, share housework and the labor of bringing children, it is impossible for the wife to become like this! The wife not only carries the baby alone, but also bears it. Your complaint, you should reform yourself first!"
As a mother of four children, she also has troubles because she has to take care of four babies at the same time, even if she has resigned at home, she still cannot take care of it. . I used to paint a light makeup beautifully after getting up, but now even washing my face is a luxury. After all, when my child wakes up, the house is just like flying dogs. In order to take care of the child's diet and daily life, he only eats one meal a day, or cooks vegetable noodles in a pot for 3-5 hours of sleep a day.
This is still the basic diet and daily life. When it comes to educating children, mothers are even more troublesome. It is even more difficult for twins to raise children, let alone four children of the same age. No one can help. Are you not anxious and irritable?
All, if you want family harmony, it is not enough to rely on your mother alone. The husband should also join the "reconstruction", or every member of the family is an important member of the family harmony.
As a parent, how should we ensure a harmonious family relationship?
share family responsibilities between spouses
When couples first got married, they didn't have too many family responsibilities to bear, they just need to take care of each other, so the relationship is still very close. When a family has children, parents must assume the responsibility of taking care of their wives. If there is only one child, the relative pressure is relatively light. If the elderly are healthy, they can also help with the children.
However, if there are two children at home, or even the quadruplets mentioned in the program, the elderly will not have enough energy to take care of the children. Only one of the couples chooses to take care of the children at home. Of course, there are more full-time mothers. However, the choice of a wife to take care of the family does not mean that the husband can take care of the family and only needs to earn money. The husband is also responsible for taking care of the family and doing housework with his wife to take care of the children, so that the husband and wife will not quarrel frequently and the family relationship can be harmonious.
Correctly educate and guide children
Parents must not only raise but also raise their children. In daily life, parents must educate their children to be grateful and reward. Parents have to take care of the family as well as work. It is very hard to let their children knowForgive parents for their difficulties and understand them. It is often said that children are the little angels of their parents. We believe that no matter how tired parents are at work, they will be swept away by the laughter of the children.
Taking care of the family and educating children is not a matter of father or mother alone. Parental love and motherly love are indispensable. As a guide for children's growth, parents must be serious and responsible.
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