says that the elderly cannot visit each other. Why do you say so? After reading this article, you will know why you said that. Not visiting each other is not only responsible for yourself, but also for your children. If something happens, who will be responsible for you, and if something happens, you will also harm others and yourself. I hope that through this case, all the elderly can pay attention, not only for themselves but also for their children.
If you can not visit, this is the case, don’t visit. Otherwise, when something happens in the end, it will be too late to regret it by then. Why do you say so? Let's take a look together. The 65-year-old man cried: I would rather be bored alone than visit me, as well as harm others and yourself.
case story sharing person,
65-year-old aunt Zhou:
I was wrong. I told my son that they are all family members, so there is no need to make things difficult for the other party, okay? You lend me some money first. I will take care of you in the future after I solve this problem. Then if I have money, I will definitely return it to you. My son told me that this matter has nothing to do with you. It’s not that you insisted on them coming to play at home, it was your friend who insisted on coming to play at home. It’s that if he doesn’t come by himself, this wouldn’t happen. What’s more, you have already compensated so much money, what else do you want to do?
How much did you give for that matter? The deposit of more than 100,000 yuan was spent. After spending it, I borrowed some money from us. Now I have to compensate 200,000 yuan. How can I get that much money? Did our money come from the strong wind? If you start this, you will never end. Do you treat him as a friend? Do he treat you as a friend?
Even if it is a relative, don’t worry about this matter anymore, they are too much. Although you are a little wrong with this matter, you are not completely your fault. So don’t worry about so much, just live your own life well. This matter is a little ruthless, just ignore it. The more you care about, the more painful you feel. The more you care about, the more uncomfortable you feel, and this matter will never end. So you can never care about this matter anymore, even if you feel ruthless, it doesn’t matter.
I was speechless. After talking to my child, my friend found me. My friend is Lao Zhang. Lao Zhang, who is older than me, told me that you must be responsible for me in this matter. If it weren’t for me to go to your house, this wouldn’t have happened. Even if you don’t care about my affairs, you have to be responsible for my grandson. Now my children are also talking about this. If you don’t compensate, they will call the police. If that happens, we can’t even make friends. Let’s not say that our relatives can’t make friends. Don’t forget that I have a relative with you, relatives and friends.
I was speechless. I have tried my best in this matter, but it is still so. I told Lao Zhang that I have already compensated all the money I can compensate. What do you think of me? I have no money anymore. I spent more than 100,000 yuan in the hospital, and then I compensated more than 100,000 yuan.
has almost 300,000 yuan. You still want me to compensate 200,000 yuan now. This is impossible, let alone 200,000 yuan. I sold me but I didn’t have 200,000 yuan, and I didn’t have 20,000 yuan. What’s more, my child has disagreed with this matter. If I were making trouble here, my child would definitely not care about it. Then I can’t do anything about it. Now this group is like this.
Later, Lao Zhang's child also found his home and came to the house. I don’t want this either. We used to have a good relationship, we were relatives and friends, but now we are all familiar with each other. Isn’t this matter ultimately because of visiting each other? If I hadn't visited Lao Zhang. Then the old class will not come to the homestay. The reason why I share this matter is to remind the elderly that they would rather be bored at home than visit friends, because doing so will only harm others and yourself. Just like what I am now, it not only harms myself, but also harms my children.
I borrowed more than 100,000 yuan from my child, and I don’t know when I will get the money back to them.And now Lao Zhang’s children and Lao Zhang have to ask me to compensate 200,000 yuan. How can I get so much money from the strong wind? It’s a lot of 200,000 yuan. Take my child’s salary as an example. It costs more than 10,000 yuan a month, but the money you can save is only about 1,000 yuan.
If you only cost more than 10,000 yuan a year, how many years will it take to save 200,000 yuan? It’s hard to think about it, how can I get so much money? So don't go there to visit. If you don't go, don't happen, just like me. When I am very bored at home, I always visit Lao Zhang.
Don’t say that I am like this, I think many elderly people are like this. When you are bored, go to your friends to visit or play with relatives. Then Lao Zhang had a very good relationship with me, both a friend and a relative. I often visited him and sometimes stayed with him for the night. Of course, he treated me like this. Sometimes Lao Zhang would come to your house for dinner, but he would not stay there for the night. Lao Zhang told me, if you spend the night, it would be fine if you spend the night, my child needs my care, and I have to go back tonight. It would be fine to come to your place to play during the day.
And there is nothing at home, so I am alone at home. It doesn’t matter whether I go home or not, it’s okay to go to my hometown. So sometimes I don’t go back and I’m more lively in my hometown. This is how I am older. I like the lively and the deserted ones feel very pitiful and sad, so I don’t like to stay at home very much. If I can, I stay in my hometown. Over time, my relationship with my hometown has become better and better.
I thought nothing happened, but something happened that I regretted. I have a good relationship with Lao Zhang, and then Lao Zhang brought his grandson to the house for dinner. It seems that this is a very common thing. It’s both relatives and friends. Can you come to your house for dinner?
so I didn't think much about it either. Besides, I always went to Lao Zhang for dinner, but now he came to his house for dinner. I don’t know how happy he even brought his grandson to this place. Lao Zhang and his grandson came, so I quickly bought vegetables and cooked. Lao Zhang told me that he wanted to eat fish, so I bought a big fish. Then I told Lao Zhang, I will buy you the fish, but I don’t know what you want to eat. You can do whatever you want. I will pay and work hard.
Then Lao Zhang cooked the rice, and when I was outside, Lao Zhang brought out the fish, it turned out to be steamed. It's okay, but it accidentally stuck in my throat while eating. Lao Zhang's child accidentally got stuck in his throat after eating fish. Then Lao Zhang asked the child to have a meal quickly. I also think so, eat to see if I can press down that bone.
So I also took the food for Lao Zhang's child, hurry up and eat it, swallow it in one bite, and swallow the bone. Lao Zhang's child has not solved the problem yet, and Lao Zhang is stuck in his throat. I was also convinced of how they ate fish. Why didn’t these accidents happen in my life when I ate fish? I thought it was just a simple throat stagnation, but I never expected that my heart would be so serious because both of them were sent to the hospital.
After I went to the hospital, the doctors blamed me for eating and swallowing that bone. They should slowly pick it up. I couldn't swallow it at all, so I only got the bone to a more difficult place. Now I need surgery. Lao Zhang is old and his child is young. Both of them have to undergo surgery. You also know that it will cost a lot of money to take a random film in the hospital.
so I spent more than 20,000 yuan at once, and then I arranged the surgery. After the surgery, I had to be hospitalized and anti-inflammatory drugs. I used more than 100,000 yuan, which seemed like a simple thing, but I used so much money and I had to pay the fee soon.Then Lao Zhang's child told me that you should be responsible for this matter, and I wanted to refute it, but how should I refute this matter? It did happen at my house. If I didn't ask them to come to eat at home, this wouldn't have happened.
To be precise, it is because I always visit Lao Zhang, so Lao Zhang comes to visit my house. If I hadn't visited Lao Zhang. Then Lao Zhang would not come to his house, and this would not happen if he went out. It was true. Forget it, I would rather give it money and paid more than 130,000 yuan. Although the doctor said it would be reimbursed in the future.
But at that time I did give more than 130,000. He gave Wang more than 130,000 yuan, and then Lao Zheng's child told me to compensate. Because hospitalization also has losses in all aspects, especially Lao Zhang is older, after this incident, he lost a lot of weight and lost his energy. To put it bluntly, he lost half his life. Then I told me that I would compensate 150,000 yuan, and I would not have that much money. Lao Zhang told me that this is not what I want to do.
Tell my child if there is anything, and my child will do whatever he says. If something happens to me, will it still be my child responsible? Compensation should be given to them. The child in the morning insisted that I compensate 150,000 yuan, and even made the matter to the police station, and finally asked my son to compensate. My son didn't want to see me worrying every day, so he agreed. Forgot to compensate for it is all my son. At that time, I told my son that you will give it to them for the time being, of course, I will pay it back to you in the future. I will get a monthly pension and then return it to you from my pension.
0000 spent more than 130,000 yuan in hospital, and then compensated 150,000 yuan, which had already been spent nearly 300,000 yuan. I thought this matter ended here, but I didn’t expect that Lao Zhang’s child would have to ask me to compensate me and say what if there is any accident in the later stage of the sanitation fee?
I have to make up for 200,000 yuan. I don’t have that much money, but I will come every day. I would rather make trouble and tell me the big reason every day. I will ask me to make up for 200,000 yuan. I don’t have that much money, but I will come to my house every day. I will tell me the big reason every day, and say that relatives and friends cannot be between them. Since relatives and friends should not be treated like this, I would not think of this. What’s more, I just asked them to come to the house for dinner, but I didn’t tell them to let them eat fish, let alone let children eat fish too. This matter has nothing to do with me. The more the troubles go, the more the troubles are, and in the end, relatives can't do it, friends can't do it, and they have to sue me and ask me to compensate 200,000 yuan.
My child refuses to give money. I was wrong, so I shouldn't knock on the door when I was bored. If I didn't knock on the door, this wouldn't have happened, and now I won't want anyone to ask for so much money. I also talk about relatives and friends, but now I can’t do it.
so no matter how bored the elderly are, they cannot visit each other. Once there is any accident in the visit, you have to think of a solution yourself, otherwise you will be like me. If you solve the problem from the fundamental level, you should not visit each other, and no matter how bored you are, don’t visit each other.
Conclusion:
is indeed this thing. So don’t visit each other anymore. Isn’t it good for you to be alone? If you really want to find the other person, you can make an appointment to go out for dinner. If something happens, the restaurant outside will be responsible. If you ask the other person to come to the house and something happens, who will be responsible then? Should you be responsible? Just say you don’t want to be responsible, do you think the other party will let you go? Think from the perspective of others, if something happens to you at someone else’s house, do you think you will let the other party be responsible?
Many times, many things cannot be explained clearly once an accident occurs. At that time, it is not only you but your child who suffers. Just like this in the article, the child also pays 150,000 yuan, and in the end the child will have to compensate 200,000 yuan.Whoever’s money is blown by the strong wind, and everyone’s money is hard-earned, but there is no need to waste money like this, so it is said. If you can avoid visiting each other, try not to visit each other. If you have any questions, you can call or not meet each other, then make an appointment. Only in this way can these tragedies be avoided. If you are not afraid of ten thousand, just be afraid of if you are not. So the elderly must pay attention to such tragedies, and don’t happen like this.
