Recently I saw a very funny topic. A friend said that if you are raped, should you tell your husband? First of all, you must be clear that rape means that men violate the will of women and have sex. If you are raped by others in daily life, I think most women will choose to swallow their anger. The so-called family scandals should not be made public. Once others know that a man’s wife was raped by others, the man is still indifferent and others will look down on such a man.
I was raped. The first thought in many people's mind is whether to tell their husbands that if they tell their husbands, there may be two situations, either they will be beaten by their husbands, or they may also say that they are not a wife's word. If they don't say it, they will just swallow their anger. If the rapist does not harass the second time, I think it's better to bear it. After all, family is the most important. If you really want to sue the rapist, then after suing the rapist, you will not have the face to live and can only divorce your husband.
I was raped. If I could forget the shame, I think this is very important to the family. Once I told my husband, the husband would not pay attention. Most men were unwilling to be cuckolded on their heads, so I still endured it for the sake of the family.
But on the one hand, I can't tolerate it. If the rapist has to harass him at any time, this situation has threatened his normal life, so I don't have to worry about them. Call the police and arrest the rapist. Sometimes there is a contradiction between reality and theory. Some people think that they have been raped, and the first step is to choose to call the police, and the second step is to tell their husband that they have been raped by others. In fact, these are irrational.
After being raped, if you can tolerate it, you can tolerate it. As long as the rapist no longer provokes himself in the future, the rapist can also compensate for some mental damage if appropriate. But remember not to be surrounded by the rapist, so when you are raped, the rational way is to find someone to analyze the interests.
In daily life, someone is raped, and most people will not tell their husbands. If their husbands know that they must be unable to help but be angry.
Everyone has a hard time, and the couple must also coordinate their lives. If a person is really raped, they cannot tell their husband the first step and must make an idea for themselves.
