looked at the youth unemployment rate and an income poll, and it is really not easy for everyone now.
No one could have imagined that this year's situation would be like this. Uncertainty has been talked about a lot in recent years.
Luo Xiang wrote in "Circle Justice": The only certainty in life is our uncertain life.
Indeed, life is full of uncertainty. We have no way to fight uncertainty, we can only accept uncertainty.
was chatting with some friends about the recent situation some time ago. She said that she felt so powerless and that every day was full of variables. She finally had work activities, but they were suddenly canceled due to the epidemic. The decrease in income has had some impact on me, but fortunately it has not affected my online work.
My suggestion is to let her spend more time and energy on some online work that is not too affected now, and then make some new adjustments offline, and try her best to prepare for the worst.
makes new adjustments according to the actual situation, adapts to changes and uncertainties, finds certainty amidst uncertainty, and looks for new ways out.
Adapt to uncertainty and always be prepared for uncertainty.
Life is not static, what remains unchanged is change itself. Many times this change is not proactive but forced.
For example, if you lose your job while still working, the harder it is to adapt to the changes, the more painful it will be.
A sister told me that she lost her job, got seriously ill, and got divorced within this year. She had to sell her house to treat her illness. Now she doesn’t dare to think about other things. She can only wait until she recovers her health.
Regarding various uncertainties, all we can do is to do the right thing at the moment and make some preparations to the best of our ability.
For example, you can improve yourself in your spare time, focus on building your own moat, think carefully about your core competitiveness, and consult industry professionals on some career issues before changing careers.
What should I do if I feel insecure in the face of uncertainty?
Li Songwei said, Our sense of security does not come from "bad things will never happen", although we also hope so. A more realistic sense of security is when we believe that even if bad things happen, we can cope with them.
Security is a verb in real life, not a noun.
Real life is full of uncertainties. No one knows what will happen to them next moment. Few people dare to guarantee that they will have a sense of security throughout their lives.
When we lack a sense of security, we work hard to build and improve our sense of security, such as doing career planning , money saving plans, etc.
has encountered new uncertainties and challenges in the process of building and improving our sense of security, and thus has no sense of security. Therefore, we use actions to consolidate our sense of security.
We are always looking for a sense of security in the midst of uneasiness, and in the process of searching for a sense of security, we become uneasy, and the cycle goes on and on.
Therefore, the sense of security is never fixed. It is an ongoing action, not a static thing.
We must understand that security is unstable and always changing. What we can do is to do something when we lack security to make us feel safe and have a stable mentality to face various uncertainties.
In the face of uncertainty, how to coexist peacefully with uncertainty:
1. Don’t fight against the uncertainty of life.
Life is full of uncertainties, and we are always fighting against uncertainties. In the end, we are actually competing with ourselves, immersing ourselves in negative emotions and unable to get out. In this way, you will have no energy to do those important things.
2. Keep yourself busy, busy is the best medicine.
People tend to think too much when they are free, especially when they are in a bad mood. They can't help but think about the worst of many situations. Maybe I was already in a bad mood, but became angry again when I went online. Keep yourself busy and distracted.
3. Find your core competitiveness and build your own moat in life.
People with an "antifragile" constitution are the most adaptable to uncertainty.People with this kind of physique often have their own core competitiveness, know how to build their own moat, and improve their survival skills to adapt to various changes.
4. Focus on what is happening now and live every day well.
Any change must be brought about by actions - the combination of your own goals and actions.
Recognize your current situation, set long-term goals and determine current goals, and do what you have to do every day around the goals. The future is hidden in every current action. As Zhu Deyong said, living every day well is the best revenge for a mediocre life.
