Fang Yue of the Southern Song Dynasty once said: "Unfortunately, things often go wrong, but you can always tell people the same thing.

Southern Song Dynasty Fang Yue said: "Unfortunately, things often go wrong, but you can tell people the same thing."

Look at the person with a bright and bright appearance, his life may not always be bright; look at the person who smiles playfully all day long , His life may not be all joy; if you look at a person who is depressed all day long, his life may not be bad...

A person's life may seem calm, but in fact it is rough. It may seem comfortable and comfortable, but in fact it is full of crises. Joy is always accompanied by sorrow. , sadness mixed with joy.

Many things are beyond our control, and we cannot force them.

We may not be treated sincerely if we hold our sincerity in our hearts. We may not get the results we want despite our best efforts. This is always the case in life.

In fact, things that truly belong to you will come to you sooner or later, and things that do not belong to you will leave you sooner or later.

The efforts you put in will definitely help you at some point; the blessings you save will definitely reward you at some point. As for the rest, what does not fall upon you is merely something that does not belong to you.

For the rest of your life, learn to let things happen, and everything will be the best arrangement.

Jin Yong once said: "I am very slow-tempered and don't rush. I do everything slowly and slowly, and in the end I get it done."

For many things, being anxious is not only useless, but will also make things worse. To develop, it is better to slow down your pace, do what you need to do now, and slowly realize the process from quantitative change to qualitative change.

Those moments that make you feel helpless, those things that make you feel unwilling, in fact, no matter how you escape, you still can't escape. There are always things you can't control, and there are always things you can't force.

Life can't be perfect. It takes many stumblings along the way to reach the end. But as long as you can reach the end, all the setbacks and difficulties encountered on the way will be worth it.

Keep a normal heart, maintain a good attitude, don't blame others, learn to accept fate, learn to accept the impermanence of life, and learn to face the ruthlessness of reality.

On the contrary, the more anxious you are, the more likely you are to make mistakes.

I have read this story:

There was a woodcarving master who took on two apprentices. The eldest apprentice was smart and learned things quickly. The little apprentice is dull, but he is very practical in his work.

One day the woodcarving master called the two of them over and said he wanted to teach them a unique skill.

The eldest apprentice was extremely excited, waiting for his master to teach him skills; the younger apprentice said nothing, but his eyes were full of expectation.

The master woodcarver had a clear view of the two people's reactions and said slowly: "Don't worry, before I teach you, you must make a solid ball and then come to me."

The great apprentice hurriedly did it, and soon he brought back a surface Rough little balls.

After a long time, the little apprentice slowly came out of the room, the ball in his hand was extremely smooth. When two small balls are placed together, you can tell which one is better and which one is worse.

At this time, the wood carving master said sincerely: "The unique skill I teach you is called slow work and careful work."

The time and effort you put in will definitely not let you down. Even if it is slower, the result will not be too bad. .

Zhang Ailing once said: "Meeting the right person at the right time is happiness; meeting the wrong person at the right time is sadness; meeting the right person at the wrong time is sigh; meeting the right person at the wrong time is sigh. When you meet the wrong person, you are helpless. "

In the final analysis, it is just about letting fate happen.

You originally thought that the other person was the right person, but later experience tells you that the other person is the wrong person, and you will end up with a failed relationship.

You can think about it from another perspective. If you have not experienced that relationship, you will never know that the other person is the wrong person, you will never know what kind of person you are suitable for, and you will never know what problems you have.

Wrong relationship or wrong experience, everything is destined and everything is the best arrangement.

The fate of the pair may be late, but it will definitely not be absent. Before that, improve yourself, make yourself a better lover, and qualify yourself to meet someone more worthy.

There are many things that we cannot control. The only thing we can change is ourselves, and the only thing we can grasp is our own destiny.

Therefore, when facing the impermanence in life, we must learn to look away and learn to accept the fate.

The suffering God gives us is not to make us fall, but to make us stronger and let us know how to reach the end step by step.

Just like Yishu said: "The more unlucky you are, the more you have to calm down, cheer up, and get through it quietly. Don't make a fuss, create a laughing stock, or leave trouble in the future."

For the rest of your life, no matter how hard you work, Believe that everything is the best arrangement.

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