A quarrel led to the divorce of the couple. More than ten years later, his wife Wang Huifang was suffering from leukemia . The whole family mobilized and only one son, Chen Bin, was successfully matched. But at the critical moment, the son's phone number could not be reached.
Did something unexpected happen or the son Chen Bin was unwilling to save his mother, and what did Wang Huifang do to make the young Chen Bin say something heartbreaking?
Chen Bin had an endless quarrel with his father, Chen Zhijian, and his mother, Wang Huifang.
In 1999, Chen Zhijian and Wang Huifang, who lived in Changsha City, Hunan Province, welcomed the fruit of their love. The arrival of their son Chen Bin accelerated their divorce.
Chen Zhijian is the management of a local unit. Under the introduction of a friend, he met 's wife Wang Huifang, who is two years younger than him. In the early days of their acquaintance, Wang Huifang said that she was well educated and sensible, and would treat him politely and treat each other to dinner when they were out.
When his parents asked if the two had feelings, Chen Zhijian said that felt pretty good and there was nothing inappropriate, so the two got married.
Young Chen Bin and his mother Wang Huifang
However, married life made Chen Zhijian discover the true nature behind Wang Huifang's mask.
After marriage, Wang Huifang often had unreasonable quarrels with Chen Zhijian over trivial matters. Every time she quarreled, she would threaten with divorce, but Chen Zhijian only felt that she might be insecure.
Therefore, Chen Zhijian often spends as much time with Wang Huifang as possible after work, and also gives her a credit card so that she can buy whatever she wants.
In this way, the relationship between the two gradually eased. However, Chen Zhijian slowly discovered that the credit card given to Wang Huifang was basically used up every month, and Quan did not see anything added to his home.
Chen Zhijian didn't care at first. After all, his family conditions were also good, so for him, the money was within his ability.
However, after having children, their relationship declined sharply. One night when she returned home, Wang Huifang said to Chen Zhijian: "There is no electricity bill at home. Please transfer the money to me and I will pay the electricity bill." "
This makes Chen Zhijian a little confused. He gives his wife living expenses every month. Why do he have to ask for money for such a small thing? So he expressed his inner thoughts to his wife. However, the wife did not say anything and just told Chen Zhijian that she had spent all the money.
Chen Zhijian told his wife : "Now that we have children, there will be a lot of money to spend in the future. We should save money on some places, for the sake of our children and future health."
It was originally a normal statement, but Wang Huifang listened. After arriving, he got angry and argued : "What do you mean now, do you think I spend too much money? I'm just like this. What can you do to me? If you can live with it, get divorced if you can't."
Chen Zhijian didn't care when he saw his wife like this. What to say, just sighed and turned around and went to sleep. He thought it would be over after a while, but what Wang Huifang did later made him even more sad.
One day when Chen Zhijian returned home from work, he saw young Chen Bin alone at home but his wife was nowhere to be seen, and he couldn't get through the phone. So he waited for Wang Huifang's arrival at home.
Waited until drunken Wang Huifang returned home late at night. While sobering up his wife, Chen Zhijian told his wife : "Now that I have a child, it is very dangerous to leave the child alone at home. Secondly, it is not safe for a woman to drink at night." "
Unexpectedly, this sentence ignited Wang Huifang's anger again, which resulted in another quarrel. The two people's quarrels and the cry of the child could be heard throughout the room.
Wang Huifang threatened Chen Zhijian by asking for divorce again, and Chen Zhijian was fed up with this life of endless quarrels, so he no longer compromised and agreed to Wang Huifang's request.
Then in the divorce agreement , the first request made by Wang Huifang was to give up the custody of her son, but they were quarreling over the division of property. She also threatened: "I don't want the child, and I won't give up the money." "Not less."
Sick mother
After the divorce, Chen Zhijian lived alone with his son Chen Bin. Due to the lack of his mother's company, Chen Zhijian became both a father and a mother, which pushed Chen Bin to 16 years old.
In 2015, a sudden phone call from his ex-wife suddenly interrupted the peaceful life of Chen Zhijian and his son.
Wang Huifang on the phone said that he had been diagnosed with leukemia and needed a stem cell transplant. He was currently receiving chemotherapy at a private hospital in Beijing. He hoped that his ex-husband could get a checkup to see if he was eligible for a transplant.
When Wang Huifang's parents learned that their daughter was sick, they were as anxious as ants on a hot pot. mobilized relatives and friends at home to go to the hospital for examination to see who was eligible.
The final test results of the sick Wang Huifang
came out. Among more than a dozen people, only Wang Huifang’s son Chen Bin met the conditions for stem cell transplantation. When Wang Huifang learned the news, it was like grabbing a life-saving straw.
Call Chen Bin every day and tell him : "Son, mommy is sick. Now only you can save mommy. You must save mommy, otherwise mommy won't live long."
But suddenly one day, Chen Bin However, Bin's phone number could not be reached. This made Wang Huifang and her parents anxious, so Wang Huifang asked her parents to find her grandson Chen Bin. Only her son could save her now.
Because Chen Bin could not be contacted, the grandparents could only go to school to look for Chen Bin. Because Chen Bin also stayed at his grandparents' house for a while when he was a child, so the relationship between Chen Bin and his grandparents was still okay.
After understanding the purpose of his grandparents’ visit, Chen Bin said : “It’s not that I don’t want to donate. I’ve looked up this surgery online and I know what it’s about, but I’m only 16 years old and not a minor. Besides, my parents have already Divorced. "
"Only if my father agrees to sign can I have this operation. Otherwise, even if I go with you without my father's signature, the hospital will not be able to extract my stem cells ."
Wang Huifang's parents went there. The school is looking for Chen Bin
Therefore, Wang Huifang's parents can only contact their daughter's ex-husband Chen Zhijian, and Chen Zhijian also expressed to his former father-in-law and mother-in-law that he was also very entangled when he knew that his son was eligible for surgery.
First of all, now he is the only guardian of the child. He believes that all surgeries have certain risks. Moreover, the hospital his ex-wife chose in Beijing is also a private hospital. He wants to ensure the child's health first, before he chooses whether to save the child. ex-wife.
Moreover, Chen Zhijian also expressed to Wang Huifang that he could agree to let his child donate stem cells to her, but the only requirement was to come to the local public hospital in Xiangya for surgery, so that he could rest assured about the health of his son Chen Bin.
However, Wang Huifang refused to come back no matter what. She still insisted on letting her son come to Beijing for surgery, claiming that only here could her disease be cured. In the end, the two broke up on bad terms.
Wang Huifang's mother
Moral kidnapping
While Wang Huifang's parents were running around for their daughter's condition, they found that they could not contact Chen Zhijian and Chen Bin. It had been about a week since they learned about Chen Bin at school. Didn't come to class.
At this time, Chen Zhijian's younger brother called. On the phone, Chen Zhijian's younger brother expressed his willingness to meet and talk with the two old people, but hoped that the two old people would not disturb the lives of his brother and nephew.
Chen Zhijian's younger brother immediately expressed his inner thoughts as soon as they met. From the beginning, Wang Huifang fell ill and needed to draw blood to see if it met the standards. Later, he called his nephew Chen Bin many times and told him to save his mother.
Wang Huifang's father
has caused a lot of mental pressure on Chen Bin. In fact, his nephew Chen Bin is also afraid of the operation, but he is also willing to save his mother, but the video his mother sent him was sent to her instead. It caused a lot of mental pressure on .
The video above is a video of Wang Huifang. Wang Huifang said in the video : "Son, you are the only one who can save your mother now. You must come to save your mother. If you don't save your mother, you will be a failure, even if you are promising. Because you didn't save your mother, you are also immoral and failed."
Wang Huifang also called almost all the relevant leaders in her ex-husband Chen Zhijian's unit and told them that Chen Zhijian refused to save her. This also led to Chen Zhijian being interviewed by his boss many times, which also made Chen Zhijian feel a lot of pressure in work and life.
However, it was not that Chen Zhijian and his son Chen Bin did not intend to donate at first. They just wanted to have the operation in Xiangya. However, they were put under such pressure without communicating well with their ex-wife Wang Huifang. Their spirits were broken.
Chen Zhijian's younger brother
Brave young man
Faced with this situation, Wang Huifang's parents could only apologize for their daughter's behavior. They didn't know what to do. They could only say that they hoped they could understand. After all, there was no What parent doesn't feel sorry for their children.
And Chen Zhijian’s younger brother also expressed his understanding, but why doesn’t his brother Chen Zhijian feel sorry for his child? Although he divorced Wang Huifang, Chen Zhijian did not stop his son from donating stem cells to his mother. He just wanted to protect his son's health.
In the end, they decided to extract Chen Bin's stem cells locally in Xiangya, and then transport the stem cells to Beijing to perform the surgery on Wang Huifang through the connection between the local hospital and Beijing Hospital .
Chen Bin faced his mother on the phone screen and said : "Mom, don't be afraid. Don't worry, I will donate it and I will definitely save you."
When others asked him if he was really not afraid, Chen Bin said : "How can I not be afraid? There are also reports of failures on the Internet, so I am not afraid. But you don't know what I went through in my childhood. Compared with my childhood, I am not afraid."
short These few words made everyone full of affirmation and sadness for the 16-year-old boy in front of them. They were sure that he was willing to donate stem cells to the mother who had not been with him since childhood. They were also full of sadness for Chen Bin's childhood that lacked maternal love.
Pictures come from the Internet
Summary
People often find that everything is external to them when their lives are about to come to an end, and only a healthy body is the most important.
Due to their own reasons, children have lacked the company of their parents since childhood. Growing up in single-parent families, they tend to pay more attention to family affection. In their eyes, they would rather give up everything to hold on to the only remaining family affection.
Once a family
No matter how much suffering they suffered in childhood, their hearts are still positive and kind. Perhaps as the saying goes, only those who have experienced ups and downs will be willing to support others. umbrella.
