We have met many women who are smart and capable in their careers, but when it comes to marriage, they become stupid women who are at the mercy of men. What is the reason for
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Women like this will have a weak mindset when it comes to relationships.
So what is the mindset of the weak? There are generally three types of psychology.
A mentality: only good women deserve love
Many women should be good children since childhood. They are instilled by their parents with the concept that bad children are unloved. It seems that only good children deserve love, so women cannot accept what others say. There's nothing wrong with you.
Many men take advantage of this weakness in women to manipulate them.
Even if a man is wrong, he will say: The reason why I am like this is because you are not good enough to me.
At this time, the woman will be twice as kind to the man, paying constant attention to him, giving him gifts that he likes, or giving him money.
But we don’t know that his treachery has something to do with himself and has nothing to do with our attitude. No matter how well we do, it won’t necessarily save the situation.
Two kinds of psychology: the more pitiful the more reasonable
Many women can’t bear it because of men’s cheating, but when they hear the men’s constant excuses and see the men wiping away their tears, their hearts soften and their maternal instincts flourish. But his wound has not healed yet, but he wants to coax the man in front of him.
This kind of woman lacks love since she was a child. Only through continuous giving can she be recognized and her own sense of worth be reflected.
Men take a look at women's psychology and pretend to be pitiful after knowing that their betrayal has been discovered. If a woman is soft-hearted, he can get away with it by being muddle-headed.
Three kinds of psychology: I can't live without a man
Many women are very reasonable at first, but after being scolded by a man, they don't know what to do.
When I heard this: Are you pushing me out?
The woman was frightened and afraid that the man would leave her, so she thought: If I become what a man likes, will he accept me?
She keeps trying to change herself, hoping that the man can come back to her.
But the end result will break a woman's heart.
Weak thinking is very harmful. It will cause us to make cognitive errors and deviate from correct thinking.
We must have an objective thinking mode. When a problem arises, both parties are responsible. Blaming one party blindly is wrong and is not conducive to solving the problem.
We must have bottom line awareness and recovery awareness.
Bottom-line awareness means that we cannot change the bottom line of our lives and can properly solve problems on the basis of principles.
Recovery consciousness means that we can accept setbacks and failures and have the courage and ability to repair ourselves.
If you want to have these two abilities and don't know what to do, you can discuss them together.
