Preface: In today's society, although it is good to live alone, you need to have strong enough courage, at least strong enough not to rely on anyone, and not to be envious when you see others in pairs or family reunions. If you can do it At this point, it’s okay to remain single.

Preface:

In today's society, although it is good to live alone, it requires strong enough courage, at least strong enough not to rely on anyone, and not to be envious when seeing others in pairs or family reunions, if possible Once you reach this point, it’s okay to remain single.

Live your life with peace of mind, regardless of other people's eyes. It is easy to say, but it is still difficult to do.

Just like many middle-aged and elderly people, even if they are single, most of them will find a wife, for no other reason than to have someone to accompany them in their old age, and to have someone by their side who understands both coldness and warmth. Let’s take a look at Ms. Jin’s experience below!

The 68-year-old Ms. Jin said:

When I was working, I felt that living alone was quite good. I was free and did not have so many worries. I always felt that marriage was a siege and I felt that I would be very tired after entering. So at that time Even if someone introduces a man to me, I will ignore it. I retired after

. After retirement, I found that living alone is really lonely, because after retirement I have a lot of free time, staying at home all day, not knowing what to do, and I especially long for someone to accompany me. If If I have someone to accompany me, I can go traveling with him, so I came up with the idea of ​​finding another companion. Later I went to Dating Agency to register information. Through the introduction of the dating agency, I met I have a good impression of Uncle Liu. Although Uncle Liu is not very good-looking, Uncle Liu’s economic conditions are very good. He has a big house, and he has a pension of 8,000 a month, and he is very honest. , he also has a good temper. I think he is very suitable for marriage, so I stayed with him later.

After I got together with him, I kept asking him about getting a marriage certificate, but he always said that since we are at this age, we don’t need to get a marriage certificate, otherwise others will laugh at us, and we can just simply be together. Well, because he said so, I couldn’t say anything, so I didn’t go to get a marriage certificate with him.

During those years, I lived with him, and I always had concerns. I was afraid that he would die before me, and then I would get nothing, but I didn’t know what to do?

When I lived with him, he paid for all my living expenses, and he often took me on trips. I was very satisfied with what he did. My pension was saved, and I spent a year I can save tens of thousands of dollars.

After I lived with him for a few years, his health began to deteriorate. He often had to go to the hospital, and he had to take medicine every day. Seeing his body getting weaker and weaker, I felt very distressed. Later, he passed away. Before he passed away, he said to me: "Xiao Jin, I have lived with you for ten years. In these ten years, I am very grateful to you for taking care of me. You are really a good woman, so I don't want to treat you badly. I I have left you 20,000 yuan. I have saved the 20,000 yuan over the years. You can keep it for your retirement! I plan to leave this house to my children, because my children are not well off.”

After hearing what Uncle Liu said to me, I couldn't laugh or cry. I didn't expect that Uncle Liu would arrange it like this. I had served him for ten years, but in the end he only gave me 20,000 yuan. The living expenses for these years were indeed spent on him, but he There is a monthly pension of 8,000 yuan. We only spend three to four thousand yuan a month. He can save at least three to four thousand yuan every month. After ten years, it must be more than 20,000 yuan. I know that all his money is left to He had children, but he was still on guard against me. I didn’t want to say anything more later. After he passed away, I moved out of that home directly. I didn’t want to have too much to do with his children.

Author's point of view:

The relationship between couples is generally not very pure. Everyone has selfish motives, so everyone must be cautious before choosing to remarry, and try to choose a person with good character.