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In our life, we will meet many people, invite some people into our lives, establish close connections with several people, have emotional entanglements with individual people, and finally accompany them. There will only be one person beside us.
Regarding loss, it is a subject that we often face in our daily lives. Close friends and lovers who have loved seriously have once promised to leave for a long, long time, but they became separated without knowing it.
Some people have lost something and have long been accustomed to it. Some people’s departure will feel insignificant, but there will also be some people’s departure that is enough to shake our lives.
Have you ever experienced losing someone you loved deeply? There was once a popular saying on the Internet, it is like a fire burning down the house you have lived in for a long time, and you squatting alone in the distance, looking at the debris and ashes. You know that's your home, but there's no going back.
The person you have loved deeply has already entered your heart and been engraved in your bone marrow. You have become accustomed to the days when he is by your side, and you are ready to spend your life with him.
But in the end, we still had to face separation. There were many reasons for separation. Even if we knew in our hearts that no matter how reluctant we were, we would never be able to go back to where we were before. We understood a lot of truth, but we still couldn't accept it calmly.
When you lose someone you love deeply, you will have the following symptoms.
I can’t help chewing the memories over and over again, and I am trapped in deep pain and cannot extricate myself.
There are too many memories between two people who have loved deeply. The other person has already penetrated into the corners of your life and become an indispensable part of you.
has developed a profound connection with the other person, both psychologically and in life, and has long been accustomed to his presence.
He is the first person you contact when you wake up. He is the first person you want to share when you encounter anything. When you see something delicious and fun, you want to experience it with him. He has already become one of yours. Plant a subconscious mind, an existence that will be remembered all the time.
Even if you know intellectually that you shouldn’t think about it or recall it, you still can’t help but fall into memories emotionally. Every corner, every tree, every tree, and every scene will make you think of him.
Even if you know that frequently recalling the past will only deepen your pain, you can't control it at all. It will always appear in your mind from time to time.
Those beautiful memories of the past are like a thorn in my heart when I think about it now, with a dull pain.
I couldn't forget it even if I wanted to, couldn't break away even if I wanted to, and had no energy to do anything. It was as if his leaving alone had affected my whole world.
Some people are depressed and decadent, some people drink to drown their sorrows, and some people work crazy to numb themselves. All kinds of behaviors are caused by deep love.
I want to give up, but I can’t help but want to contact you. I am so entangled.
Breaking up is like this. It takes two people to confirm that they fall in love, but only one person needs to propose it to break up.
As long as one person chooses to stop here, then this relationship will no longer exist.
It's actually quite unfair. The person who was broken up with can only passively accept it without any ability to fight back. Because since he has made up his mind to leave, no matter how much you pay or how hard you try to keep him, you can't get him back.
Sometimes I think that people no longer love you, they are already so heartless, what else are you reluctant to let go of? When your self-esteem comes to the fore, you will make up your mind to let it go and stay away from each other forever.
However, this kind of impulse can only last for a short time. The next second, you will burst into tears, lose all reason, and be completely led by emotion.
If you want to know his whereabouts, you will search for traces of him everywhere on the Internet. You will also want to find an excuse or test him by drinking. You may even want to put down all your self-esteem and try again to retain him.
felt heartbroken for a moment, and then felt relieved. After all, she no longer had to worry about him leaving.
After a breakup, the person who has been unable to come out will experience such a pull between rationality and sensibility, and it will ultimately take time to smooth things over.
I don’t dare to fall in love again, for fear of repeating the same mistakes.
A profound breakup will have sequelae, and it will not be like just scratching the surface and breaking up easily.
It doesn’t mean that you just need to let it go. It will not only affect your current emotions, but also affect your future and your confidence in love.
A person who has loved seriously and deeply seems to represent all his hopes for love, all his enthusiasm and expectations for love.
Once that person leaves, it's like the sky has fallen, and the entire concept of love is shattered.
You use all your strength to love someone and be kind to someone, but in the end it is just like a passing cloud, leaving nothing behind. That person can leave as soon as he wants, but you can't just forget about it.
In the future, you will no longer dare to love someone without reservation. You will be more vigilant towards love. You will also learn to protect yourself and become cautious. When love comes, you will be full of vigilance and reject it more. Not later. The person you meet is not good enough, but you are not confident anymore and don't dare to love anymore.
You are afraid of making the same mistakes again, and you are afraid that you will lose in the end after giving up. This kind of fear will take a long time to be eliminated. It may take a long time, and you can only let it take its course and heal slowly.
It is sweet to have it, but it is painful to lose it. How bright you smile when you have it, how sad you will be after losing it.
How great would it be if love could predict its ending at the beginning? If you had known that there would be no result between the two of you, would you not have chosen to be together in the first place?
However, life is like this. No one can predict the future. We will be sad because of the loss, but there may be a turn for the better in the future, and there may be better people waiting for us.
It will be painful to lose someone you love deeply, but all losses are also a new beginning. Pick up your spirit and move forward, and everything will have a new answer not far away.
