Someone asked me how to love someone? This question itself has its own problems, how to love someone? First of all, I want to ask you a question, does the person you love also love you? If you love each other, managing a relationship can actually be very simple.
The first one is that you know him better than he knows himself. You have to know when he's smiling and when he's sad.
The second point is to shield all the shortcomings of the other party. When I first start to like someone, it may be because of their appearance, talent, or touching... It doesn't matter what it is, the important thing is that we must always maintain the original feeling.
Many relationships go from liking each other to hating each other. That’s because at first we just liked each other purely and didn’t integrate into each other’s lives. Therefore, we see each other’s strengths. After we get along for a long time, we will find many shortcomings of each other and start to hate each other. Therefore, if you love someone, you must learn to shield the other person's shortcomings. Try your best to discover the advantages of the other person. As time goes by, you will find that your lover is unique and you like everything about the person you love.
Article 3: If you love someone, you must give him a certain amount of freedom. He is a whole person and He is not yours alone. He is someone else's child, someone else's friend, someone else's employee... He belongs to this society. Help him have a good relationship with his parents, allow him to get together with friends occasionally, and support his work... So, if you love someone, he belongs to you, but he is not everything to you. The correct way to love someone is to let them live in the way they like and suitable. We can choose to go together all the way, but we can never have our own way. Loving someone means that I love you and you are free.
If, it’s just wishful love. I don't think there is any business to talk about, because it is very painful to fall in love with someone who doesn't love yourself.
Many times no matter how hard you try and what you do. People who don't like you just don't like you. We can strive for a relationship, but don't be too attached to a relationship. Let others go and let yourself go.
Give up someone who doesn't love you and give someone who loves you a chance. Give up someone who doesn't love you and you will have the whole world.
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