by Smart Mom
Everyone wants to have a sweet love, but it is not easy to meet your beloved.
Not to mention that girls will always encounter "scumbags", boys are also played by various "scumbags".
Some of them are innocent on the outside but full of scheming in reality, some are crazy about fish farming on the surface, and some are pretending to be innocent but end up interfering in other people's feelings...
Today, I will share a few common "scumbags' sayings in bed". Come and see if you have met a scumbag.
"I don't want to get married so early, just wait!"
There is a kind of scumbag who has a tepid attitude towards her partner. It's good to have you, but it's fine without you.
In addition to firm non-marriage principles or objective restrictions, some girls do not agree to get married even after being in love for many years.
This kind of girl is probably not having enough fun, not loving enough, not making up her mind, and she is greedy for a man to treat her well, which consumes his feelings.
There is a question on Zhihu: "What do girls think when they don't want to get married or break up?" The comments below hit the nail on the head:
"There is no doubt that you are a spare tire."
"Looking for a better one."
"I have never seen anyone buy it. People who can’t afford cars throw away their bicycles.”
Another comment said: “I want to have sex for free.”
only wants the attachment and happiness in love, but does not want to face the responsibilities and life in marriage.
The word "white prostitution" is accurate.
In the French movie "The Worst Person in the World", the heroine Yulia is such a scumbag who doesn't want to take responsibility.
She pursues freshness and excitement, and keeps changing from study to work to partners.
When she was studying medicine, she felt bored and broke up with her boyfriend. She majored in psychology and got involved with her tutor.
She didn’t study psychology for long before she became a photographer again, and had a relationship with a model during the shoot. When
was working in a bookstore, she met a cartoonist and they came to live together, but the marriage ended because of the man's pressure to get married and have a baby.
At this time, she met a man who was also a DINK. She thought she could live in perfect harmony, but Yulia soon felt bored again...
A woman like this who doesn't want to take responsibility and is always uneasy about the status quo is destined to be... A wandering "prodigal girl".
It is impossible to fall in love with such a woman.
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"Can you treat me as your sister?"
There is a kind of scumbag who is good at showing weakness and acting coquettishly, and can control the scale well, making men feel that she has a good personality and is partial to herself.
Once you confess your love to her, she will neither agree to date nor cut off contact with you, and will still remain ambiguous with you.
There are many scumbags like this. In the question "What is it like to have a green tea bitch next to you?" on Zhihu , one respondent told his true experience.
One of his female college classmates is pretty and cute in appearance, youthful and innocent, and looks like Chen Yihan.
Even though the respondent is terrible at football, he still often praises him: "You are so good at football!"
is very good at showing weakness. If he doesn't know how to write this or do that, he will ask the respondent for advice.
Intentionally or unintentionally, there will be some physical contact, and the girl will even take the initiative to hold his hand when no one is around.
The respondent is a simple, young and energetic young man, who has long been in love.
Encouraged by various hints, the respondent confessed his love, but was declined politely, but he kept his words:
"I want to read more books now and have not considered other things. Can you treat me as your sister?"
So the respondent did not give up and started chasing her in a high-profile manner, but the girl became cold and refused to reply to her messages.
In the end, the respondent’s brother went to test the girl and got the girl within a week.
Liu Yan commented that girls like this are consuming boys' love and true love, and occupying boys' emotions and time. This is immoral.
If you have a girl like this who is ambiguous to you but refuses to date you, or refuses to date you but still keeps away from you, she probably has more than one ambiguous partner.
When facing a girl like this, stop having expectations and imagine that you are special to her.
When it's time to break it off, cherish your youth and emotions, don't end up with scars and nothing left.
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"He and I are just ordinary friends"
There is a kind of scumbag who is naturally sentimental. After having a partner, she is always surrounded by members of the opposite sex. She calls it "good popularity." After
was discovered, she called it a beautiful name. : "Ordinary friends, best friends", even blaming the other half for being too suspicious.
My high school classmate Xiao O accidentally discovered that his girlfriend of three years was chatting with several boys on QQ last year.
The content is very ambiguous. He sang to her when he wanted to, told her to wear more clothes and keep warm, and even asked her to go shopping alone. After
was discovered, his girlfriend immediately admitted her mistake and expressed her determination that she only loved Little O and only wanted to marry Little O. The others were just ordinary friends.
Although Xiao O felt unhappy, he still believed his girlfriend.
Unexpectedly, a few days ago, he wanted to pick up his girlfriend after get off work. When he was about to call his girlfriend, he found a man driving to pick her up.
It turned out that the two people met to eat Western food. From beginning to end, they did not see holding hands, kissing or asking for a room, but Xiao O still felt very uncomfortable.
At this time, Little O asked me for help: "Are all girls like this? Why does my girlfriend still have a spare tire after falling in love?"
After hearing this, I really hated that iron cannot be made into steel. I said, "You are the spare tire, right?" ! ? "
Even if a woman like you chooses you as her marriage partner, it's all because you are easy to fool and manipulate, and she is definitely not her favorite.
When you meet such a woman, if you don’t break up, just wait for the green grassland above your head!
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"Let me taste your ice cream"
There is a kind of scumbag who likes to take advantage of others, pretending to be innocent, affectionate and the victim. In fact, she is full of scheming and good at interfering. Some women like
have no respect for feelings, while others are motivated by vanity and possessiveness, and prove their existence through robbing.
even found stimulation and pleasure in the process of seducing other men.
In the popular TV series " Only Thirty " in recent years, "Green Tea Mistress" and "Tea Master" Lin Youyou can be said to have angered many netizens.
As a recent graduate, Lin Youyou has an innocent and pitiful image, and approaches the successful person Xu Huanshan boldly and enthusiastically.
When he knew that Xu Huanshan was married, he not only sang love songs to Xu Huanshan, but also often praised him ambiguously: "How could there be such a powerful person like you!"
There is also a classic scene where Xu Huanshan is held in his arms took a bite of his ice cream, which can be said to be full of hints.
When she wanted to develop further, she said: "Let me go to your house and take a look. I just want to see what your house looks like."
In the process of persuading Xu Huanshan to be with her, she instigated the relationship between husband and wife and hit the man's pain points:
"You are just living in the persona your wife gave you, and you are the real one when you are with me. happy! "
" Gu Jia restricts you and controls you. Only I can give you freedom. "
's plan of alienation was followed by a plan of bitterness: "You shouldn't have me in your life, but I can't control myself. "
After that, Xu Huanshan was completely ruined, and eventually ended up with his wife and children.
Such a woman, even if a man abandons his original wife to marry her, she will not be content with a dull married life.
Exciting, robbing, selfish, It is her life creed, and moral constraints are meaningless to her.
Stay away from women who interfere with other people's feelings, because they have no bottom line.
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If your partner or romantic partner often says these things, you should be wary of her. She is probably a scumbag.
Scumbag men and scumbag women in reality actually follow a similar routine, packaging up a beautiful personality and then exploiting the other person's weaknesses to trap them.
They take advantage of other people's good intentions and consume others. Money, time and feelings were found out and left unscathed in the end.
But there are many "victims" who are immersed in the "love trap" set by scumbag men and women, and are unwilling to wake up even if they feel something is wrong. In the end, I was completely injured.
I advise you not to take yourself too lightly, love yourself too lowly, and be easily led by others.
You must have principles, bottom lines, and reason when facing scumbag men and women. Spread the net, cheat, seduce, get involved, and firmly say no!
You need to keep your eyes open when it comes to falling in love.
Like it, I hope you stay away from scumbag men and scumbags and find true love!
This article was first published by Uncle Nanke (ID:gh_4b5e7259fd52), author: Uncle Nanke. Life is like a dream of Nanke, with wine, stories, and you, it is enough~
