It is understood that extramarital affairs: If those people outside of marriage are really better than the original spouse, why should they destroy your family.
netizen shared, are you sure? If those people outside of marriage are really better than the original spouse, why should they destroy your family and why should they stay with you? What you think is good is just what the other person lets you see, and it is not the real side. People outside marriage with real good quality will not be with married people, because this is immoral and destroys other people's families. That’s me! My husband cheated on me for many years with a man who was inferior to me in every aspect. He himself said that he was not as good as me, so why was this? ? I still can’t figure it out.
When looking for a man, it doesn’t matter whether he has money or not, looks or looks. If you don’t want a man to cheat, you have to find a man with high IQ, high EQ, and a clear handle. He knows what he wants and what he can’t touch. He knows what kind of consequences there will be after touching him. He doesn't need you to vaccinate him, or you don't need to spend time to improve yourself. He will only keep you white and fat for himself. No one can take the trouser pocket away. Forget it, I know a very sensible man with high IQ and EQ. He has liked someone for ten years. He knows he can't and knows the consequences, but he still can't restrain himself in the end.
What you said makes sense, but cheating on a man has nothing to do with your excellence. I also admire the kind of woman who still lives with a man after he cheats on him, because I know that not everyone can do it. To put it simply , it is really difficult to do it. I live in suffering every day, and I don’t have the courage. I got divorced. I think divorce is the most honorable thing and is good for everyone. I still remember that when I got divorced, my husband was still He is saying, he loves me, I am speechless, I really want to ask him, this is your love, this is the way you love me, I really can't accept it, but I don't have any words, I am disappointed to him to the end, I don't want to say a word.
I don’t have your courage, I have two children to raise, and a multi-million dollar mortgage is waiting for me, but I am really suffering, I want to let go but I always think about it. In fact, it is better to divorce, maintain the marriage, and be decent on the surface. I know that every day I still have to wonder whether my husband is with that woman when he comes home late. It is really painful. After divorce, I live a free and easy life, living the life I want. Not better!
A person outside of marriage is always an extramarital person. He or she is a threat to you, but the threat is not great, because you are the choice of your lover, because you are the one who will accompany him or her throughout his or her life. People outside of marriage cannot compare with you, and people outside of marriage cannot be qualified to compare with you.
In a marriage, once you cannot withstand the temptation of the outside world, you will not only hurt yourself, but also your family and career.
Temptation is everywhere, how can we resist the temptation? In fact, it is very simple. Just transcend your own personality, get rid of the restrictions of your superego personality, and live your life.
Freud divides personality into three types: id, superego, and ego.
Id is a kind of human instinct, all behaviors are done according to instinct, and there is no resistance at all in the face of temptation; superego personality suppresses all desires of people, and life is not easy at all.
As for self-personality, it is the coordination mechanism between superego personality and id personality. To put it simply, while doing things according to social ethics, you can release your personality a little, so that your life will not be boring. However, all these actions are carried out within the permission of moral foundation and social norms. If
can do this, people will not be tempted to lose their minds and do wrong things.
