money is a good thing. From the moment you enter society, you will understand its importance more and more. It can solve almost 99% of the problems in the world. If we can’t solve it, it’s because we don’t have enough money!
Money can test people's hearts, make people fully feel the warmth and warmth of human feelings, and can even buy out love, friendship and family affection. Sometimes anything you regard as life can be wiped out by money until nothing is left.
"Please! Just agree! I will kneel down here for you!"
The mother-in-law cried bitterly, knelt on the ground with a plop, and hit the ground heavily with her forehead. Her action really scared me. I didn't know what to do next? How to live the next days?
My husband and I met at a friend’s wedding. We fell in love at first sight. When I first met him, my heart fell in love with his sunny and handsome appearance, gentle temperament, and humble and polite conversation. And he was also fascinated by me who was gentle, beautiful, intelligent and temperamental. So with the help of a friend, we started dating.
At that time, we both had just graduated from college and had not long since joined the workforce. I was working in a financial institution, and he was working in a well-known local state-owned enterprise.
I come from a rural area, my parents are honest farmers, and I have a younger brother at home. Although my financial situation is not bad, it is naturally not as good as those dual-income families in the city. My husband’s parents are both laid-off workers. His father is sick all year round and his financial situation is also very bad. But at that time, I valued love more than my own life, so I married my husband regardless of my parents’ objections.
When I got married, my husband's family didn't buy a wedding house, and they didn't get a penny as a bride price. Although our wedding room is rented, I firmly believe that as long as my husband and I work hard, the difficulties will only be temporary. When the time comes, we will definitely buy a big house to accommodate our love and carry our hopes, not to mention the little hard-earned money that the elderly have painstakingly saved.
That's really the case. My husband and I both work in very good companies. My husband has strong working ability and a loyal character. He was soon promoted to the middle management of the company. Of course, his salary also followed the increase and doubled. In the unit, because I graduated from a key prestigious university, my starting point was higher than others, and coupled with my hard work and strong work ability, I was quickly promoted and raised my salary, and reached the position of director of the sales department.
In order to buy a house early, we not only did not have children, we also lived frugally and did not waste a penny. In the fifth year, I finally bought a house with a mortgage.
The house was simply tidied up and we moved in. In this way, we also feel very happy. This is all the hard work of my husband and me for many years! The names of the two of us are written in the real estate book, which is just like the song:
"In the harvest fruit, there is your sweetness, and there is also my sweetness; in the military medal, there is half of yours, and half of mine..." ”
Everything will be fine. Now that we have a house and our salary is considered to be in the upper-income bracket, it’s time to consider having children.
While we were preparing for pregnancy, something happened to my husband’s brother, my brother-in-law.
My brother-in-law is six years younger than my husband. He has been a gangster with no knowledge and skills since he was a child. That day, I borrowed a car from somewhere and got on the highway to play drag racing with others.
The situation was as you might imagine, a serious accident occurred, the car was basically scrapped, and the brother-in-law was also sent to ICU. My father-in-law groaned all day long, my mother-in-law cried and cried, and the whole family was in dire straits.
My brother-in-law’s friends came over and forced my parents-in-law to ask for compensation. The most difficult thing was that my brother-in-law’s injury was very serious and his life was in danger at any time. He needed surgery as soon as possible. The surgery fee plus treatment fee is about 600,000. Doctors cannot guarantee the outcome of the treatment, which means that even with this money, they may not be able to save my brother-in-law's life.
My parents-in-law searched all their relatives and friends, but they could only borrow 20,000 yuan.The old man was incapable, so they put all their hopes and burdens on my husband and me...
My husband and I took out all our savings and only had more than 80,000 yuan, and all of them were handed over to the hospital. To say that the hospital is really a money-burning place, it only takes two or three days for the bill to be collected again.
My mother-in-law forced her husband to sell the house, saying that you can't watch your brother struggling to die.
"You two are both promising and can make money quickly. If you sell your house, you will earn it back in a few years and buy another one! But your brother only has this one, you can't just ignore it! Besides, that At that time, the family was in so much trouble that I made you go to college and I tried my best to get you out! "
My husband was inclined to sell the house to save my brother, so he looked at me to ask for my opinion. I refused in my heart. I finally managed to get my own house, so how could I just throw it away? No matter what, I can't do it that easily.
I told my mother-in-law and husband that we could borrow two to three hundred thousand from colleagues and friends, and we could use it to pay part of the treatment fee for my brother first, and then we would slowly figure out how to deal with the remaining money.
My husband shook his head and said to me: "If I lose my brother because I didn't try my best, I will never feel at ease in my life! Two to three hundred thousand is not enough at all, and there is still a lot of money left, and I can't make it up no matter what. The only way is to sell the house!”
After my mother heard this, she came over from her hometown to persuade me, saying that I had been married for so many years and didn’t even have children for this house, and now I’m 30. If you want to buy another set, you may not know how many years it will take. If I wait until I buy a house and have children, my whole life will depend on this family...
saw my firm attitude, and everything happened at the beginning of the article. My mother-in-law plopped down on her knees in front of me, crying bitterly. When my husband saw me, he told me cruelly that if it really didn't work out, he could only get a divorce, and we would get half of the house. If I agree to sell the house, their family will regard me as a benefactor and buy back a house as soon as possible and return it to me.
My mother told me that although her husband is very good, he is not committed to marrying her for the rest of his life. She would rather divorce than compromise with them...
I am now faced with a dilemma. I really don’t know what to do? Should you choose to have a relationship with your husband of eight years or protect your own rights?
I wanted to buy a house when I didn't have a house. Now that I finally bought a house, it has become a hot potato! Push me directly into the abyss of eternal destruction!
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