After a woman gets married, in addition to dealing with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, if her husband has a sister, she must deal with it.
The relationship between sister-in-law and sister-in-law is very subtle. First of all, the relationship between sister-in-law and sister-in-law is different. Sister-in-law and sister-in-law are peers and there is no generation gap. When you look at a lot of things, there will be a lot in common.
However, there are also some sisters-in-law who are very domineering. In their hearts, they will definitely reject their sister-in-law and make things difficult for them. They feel that their sister-in-law is an outsider, so they often do some excessive things to them. Before a woman gets married, she should first think about how to get along with her husband's brothers and sisters.
Kang Yun is a very beautiful girl and a very hard-working girl. Her academic qualifications were not high. After graduating from junior high school, she dropped out of school. Although she did well in the high school entrance examination, she didn't want to cause trouble to her parents, so she went to work.
Kang Yun worked in the factory for two years. She was unwilling to work in the factory for the rest of her life. Later she found a salesperson. Although it was a bit hard due to the weather, she felt that she was still very motivated. At the same time, you won’t be as tired as you would be in a factory.
After three years of hard work, Kang Yun's performance is very good, and her monthly salary is more than 10,000. At the best time, you can get 20,000 to 30,000 yuan. Kang Yun has now reached the age of falling in love and finding a boyfriend. Although Kang Yun is excellent, she does not have high requirements for boyfriends.
Later, Shao Peng and Kang Yun got to know each other. After establishing their relationship, Shao Peng was sincere to Kang Yun. He said to Kang Yun, "Kang Yun, you can earn more than 10,000 yuan a month, which is only seven or eight yuan a month." A thousand dollars, your salary is much higher than mine, will you dislike me?"
Kang Yun still likes boys like Shao Peng, so what can you say? Kang Yun said, "It doesn't matter, as long as you work hard, you will get better."
Shao Peng looked at Kang Yun, "I also have a sister named Shao Jing. Shao Jing has been spoiled since she was a child and has a bad temper. You I need to be more considerate of her in the future."
Kang Yun nodded, "I should get along well with her in the future, and she is getting married soon, so I don't need to worry too much."
However, when Kang Yun visited Shao Peng's house, she still saw the domineering nature of her future sister-in-law Shao Jing. When it was almost noon, Shao Peng's mother and Kang Yun were busy in the kitchen, but Shao Jing did not help. Instead, she urged: "Why is it so slow? I haven't eaten in a long time."
Not long after, the food was served. Shao Jing did not wait for Kang Yun to sit down, and started using chopsticks directly. While eating, she complained: "Kang Yun, the food you cook is too unpalatable. Your cooking skills must be improved, otherwise After marrying my brother, my appetite disappeared."
Kang Yun was speechless when facing her future sister-in-law.
Before a woman gets married, she must think carefully about how to get along with her future sister-in-law. Before a woman gets married, she will consider a lot about the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but often ignores the relationship between sister-in-law. In fact, the relationship between sister-in-law and the happiness of marriage have a great relationship. Women must think carefully before getting married.
Later Kang Yun married Shao Peng. After marrying Shao Peng, she felt that her married life was generally happy. Shao Peng still had a good impression of her, and she had a good relationship with her mother-in-law.
But what gives Kang Yun a headache is that her sister-in-law Shao Jing is really difficult to get along with. Shao Jing can never cook or do housework. Kang Yun often helped her wash dirty clothes, and she and Kang Yun quarreled every now and then.
Although Shao Jing is a staff member, her work attitude is very negative and she is not motivated. Kang Yun took the trouble to persuade: "Shao Jing, you must work hard, so that you can become excellent, so that you can attract more good men, and only in this way can your future life be happier."
Shao Jing said angrily, "What nonsense theory, it's none of your business. It's not up to you to decide whether I will be happy or not in the future. I'm so beautiful, so I will definitely find a very good man, so you don't need to worry about it. "Kang Yun feels that her sister-in-law Shao Jing is really a headache. She doesn't know how to get along with Shao Jing.
After a woman gets married, she can communicate with her difficult sister-in-law first. Many women are at a loss when dealing with conflicts between sisters-in-law. , I don’t know how to get along with my aunt. Women can do this too. If you have a little conflict with your sister-in-law, then communicate with her; if she always bullies you, then fight back with a tough attitude.
Kang Yun tolerated her sister-in-law's unreasonable troubles, but her sister-in-law kept asking for money, which made Kang Yun unbearable.
Shao Jing had a very negative attitude towards work, so her monthly salary was only one tael. Thousands. Shao Jing spends money lavishly, and her salary is certainly not enough, so when she has no money, she asks Kang Yun for money. Because Shao Peng pays Kang Yun every month, Shao Jing seems confident when she asks for money. Jing actually asked Kang Yun for more than 10,000 yuan within a month. At the same time, Shao Jing said to Kang Yun, "Prepare tens of thousands of yuan for me in advance. I want to buy a car. If it gets cold, I won't squeeze in." The bus is gone. "
When Shao Jing celebrated her birthday, she made an appointment with a dozen of her good friends to have dinner together at the most upscale local restaurant. "Shao Jing, thirty thousand yuan, do you have that much money? "Shao Jing's best friend looked at Shao Jing worriedly.
Shao Jing said confidently, "My sister-in-law will help me pay. After saying that, she called Kang Yun and asked Kang Yun to pay the bill. Kang Yun said proudly: "I'm not your mother." ”
Women use this kind of logical thinking to think about problems. They think that as long as you are good to her, you will meet her requirements. But for a domineering sister-in-law who spends money like water, she cannot do this. Blindly Tolerance and blind satisfaction will not only waste money, but also push you to the limit. When the time comes, it will be difficult to live a happy life.
After getting married, a woman must learn how to get along with her sister-in-law. You can't bully her, and you can't let her bully you. Only then can your marriage be happy
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