In today's society, everyone will strive for opportunities through their own efforts. During interviews, you need to speak to express your strengths; during meetings, you need to speak to express your opinions; in interpersonal interactions, you need to speak to win connections f

In today's society, everyone will strive for opportunities through their own efforts. During interviews, you need to speak to express your strengths; during meetings, you need to speak to express your opinions; in interpersonal interactions, you need to speak to win connections for yourself; in business negotiations, you need to speak to win success for yourself... No matter which aspect, It's all inseparable from talking. Not everyone is roundworm in your belly. You can understand it with just one look or action. All aspects are inseparable from information exchange. Our understanding of a person mainly comes from the speaker's usual language, which is also the most basic. A person's speaking level can reflect his or her knowledge level, experience and other comprehensive qualities.

Although "silence is golden" has been a virtue praised by people since ancient times, today, if a person only knows how to do things but is not good at words, it is not conducive to doing his job well. After all, language is needed in every link. Communication and communication. In life, you can remain silent appropriately, but it would be biased to blindly think that silence is golden. A person who is not good at words can use silence to avoid exposing his shortcomings, but his flaws will be revealed immediately when he opens his mouth, so we should cultivate our speaking skills.

A great master Xu Beihong, many of the opportunities in his life were won with words. In 1916, at the age of 21, he applied for admission to Fudan University. When the principal summoned the new students, his elegant conversation left a deep impression on the principal. He believed that Xu Beihong was a talent that could be developed, and later gave him a lot of encouragement and help. When he studied in France in 1920, he was introduced to Dayan Bouveret, the largest painter in France at that time, at a tea party. Xu Beihong, who had admired his famous name for a long time, immediately said: "Sir! I am looking forward to receiving your teachings." With one sentence, Dayang felt the sincerity and simplicity of this Chinese young man. He immediately gave Xu Beihong the address of his studio and asked him to come every Sunday. Go to your studio in the morning. On the first Sunday, Xu Beihong went to see Dayang and talked with Dayang about his pursuit and confidence. Dayang was so happy to understand his talent and ambition that he forgot that he was 68 years old and happily talked to Xu Beihong about his 50 years old. Come. Thanks to Dayang's insight, Xu Beihong eventually became a master.

A taciturn person will not lose opportunities by saying wrong things, but he will also lose more opportunities by not saying good things.

Most people, because they are not good at speaking, never dare to make any remarks in front of many people, and do not give others a chance to understand them. How can others know that he is a talented person? Some people may say that gold always shines. , but in today's world of talented people, are you sure that others will not shine brighter than you? Nowadays, if a person still adheres to the principle of "silence is golden", his life may be truly unknown. Opportunities depend on one's own Fight for it instead of waiting for it to happen. If no one cares about a taciturn person, let alone getting along with him, then this opportunity will be missed for you.

Language is an indispensable communication tool. Only by speaking can others understand you. We cannot do without language. Therefore, it is not advisable to blindly adhere to "silence is golden". Being good at speaking is a positive attitude towards life.