Introduction In real life, many elderly people who live alone will choose to remarry or find a partner to live together after living alone for a long time, because only in this way can they live comfortably in their later years. After all, in today's society, relying on children

Introduction

In real life, many elderly people who live alone will choose to remarry after living alone for a long time, or find a wife to live with, because only in this way can they live comfortably in their later years. After all, in today's society, relying on children is not reliable. , so I can only find a wife to take care of me in old age.

Especially men, men need a wife even more in their old age. As long as they find a wife, they don’t have to worry about being lonely or having no one to take care of them when they are sick. Therefore, men are more afraid of loneliness than women.

So after finding a wife, will the man have to pay for all living expenses? Let’s listen to what the following three sixty-year-olds have to say?

Uncle Long/67 years old

I am 67 years old, my surname is Long, I am a divorced old man, the reason why I divorced my ex-wife is because she betrayed me, in order to prevent her from continuing to hurt me, I had to choose to divorce .

After the divorce, I didn’t let her take the child away because I didn’t want the child to be affected, and people like her may not be able to teach children well, so I felt more at ease with the child staying with me, and I also believed that I can educate these two children well.

Later, in order to cultivate the growth of my children, I often took a lot of time to educate them, or enroll them in various cram schools. Gradually, the children also obtained good grades through their own efforts, and later they were admitted to their ideal university. .

After my children went to college, I was under a lot of pressure because I had to find ways to earn money for them to study. In order to earn more money, I worked hard every day. Although it was very hard, I had no complaints at all. , because I know that it is my duty to pay for my children, so I will not complain.

As time goes by, my children have graduated from college and have found stable jobs. After seeing that they can support themselves, I finally feel relieved and I don’t have to work as hard as before. By giving, I can reduce my work and enjoy my life.

Later, after I worked until I was 60 years old, I chose to retire. After retirement, I also realized my dream of retirement. Although living alone was very lonely at that time, I basically arranged my time to be sufficient during the day. , so I won’t feel bored. Except for being a little lonely at night, we have a great time at other times.

I thought I would spend my whole old age alone, but after a 60-year-old woman appeared, I had the idea of ​​​​finding a wife. This woman’s name is Xiaomei. Xiaomei is very beautiful. I heard that she is also divorced. And the experience is very similar to mine.

Because of similar experiences, she and I became good friends. Whenever we were worried, we would talk to each other. I thought we would always treat each other as friends, but in the end we both developed feelings for each other.

Later, I plucked up the courage to confess my love to her. At that time, she did not reject me and chose to be with me.

I didn’t guard against her after we got together, and I took the initiative to bear all the living expenses. Although many people say that remarried couples do not need to work hard and pay without complaint, it is fairest to pay together, and there is also an AA system in life, but I don't think so. I feel that since I marry someone, I have to be sincere, and I have to take the initiative to bear all living expenses, so that the other party will think that I am a good man, and then she will treat me sincerely.

So at that time, I would spend thousands of dollars every month for living expenses, and I would also share the housework with her. Just because I treated me sincerely, she was also very good to me and took good care of me every day. Me, she will accompany me whatever I want to do, and she will also discuss with me anything I have to do, so I feel very happy to be with her.

We have been together for two years now. In the past two years, we have a very good relationship and live happily. Although we are not a legal couple and just live together, we treat each other sincerely, so our life Had a great time.

Here I also hope that men who are looking for a wife must be sincere like me, because only by being sincere can you get the other person's sincerity, and you can live a peaceful life in your later years.

Uncle Zhong/64 years old

I am 64 years old this year, and my surname is Zhong. Many people have said that when looking for a wife in your later years, you must be sincere, and men must also take the initiative to bear all living expenses, because men are men, so they cannot be too stingy. Otherwise, you won’t get the other person’s sincerity.

Although I say this, I don’t think that after a man finds a wife, he has to take the initiative to bear all living expenses. I think this is very unfair. Why should men have to pay? It's not easy for men to make money, and women nowadays are very realistic. If they don't get the sincerity of the other party after giving, wouldn't it be a loss? So I don't agree with men taking the initiative to bear all living expenses.

I think that when two people are together, they have to pay for each other, each has to contribute half of the living expenses, and one person has to do half of the usual housework. This is only fair, and we will not suffer any loss if we separate someday.

Now my partner and I are like this. We have agreed that each of us will pay half of the living expenses. Although we clearly divide everything, we have each other in our hearts and will take care of each other when the other is sick, so the two of us Also lived a very happy life.

Although this method seems selfish, it is fair and allows the other party to live at ease. Therefore, I think that when looking for a wife in old age, you must implement the AA system, and you cannot let the man support the family alone.

Uncle Mao/67 years old

I am 67 years old this year. My surname is Mao. When I was 50 years old, my ex-wife divorced me. Originally, I did not agree to the divorce because my ex-wife’s family was very rich. After marrying her, my family My life has changed a lot, so with her, my family has hope. But later she couldn't stand that I couldn't handle it, and I was usually selfish, so she chose to follow me after the child grew up. divorce.

After the divorce, although I still had a stable job, my life was obviously much worse because no one took the initiative to bear all the living expenses, so I had to pay for myself.

Later, many years after I retired, I had the idea of ​​​​finding a wife. I planned to find a wife to take care of me in old age. Because my children are not filial and unwilling to take care of me in old age, I had no choice but to find a wife.

But I am looking for a wife, and I don’t plan to spend money on him, because I don’t want to suffer, nor do I want to support others, nor do I want to suffer myself. Besides, there are no regulations. After a man finds a wife, he has to take the initiative to bear all living expenses. I think women are the only ones. It is the one who should pay the most, so as to show the woman's sincerity and prove whether the woman is financially independent.

Although I haven't been able to find a wife yet because no one is willing to pay for living expenses, I believe that one day I will meet the woman who is willing to pay for me, so I will wait slowly until she appears.

Conclusion

Whether you are a man or a woman, after you find a wife, you must give to each other, because only by giving to each other can you get the sincerity of the other person, and your life will last longer.