They all told me not to do ballroom dancing. Otherwise something will happen. Just like the woman in the article, now I know that those people dancing with you have a purpose. By this time it was already too late. I hope this case can make all the elderly pay attention. You can d

has said that you cannot dance the ballroom dance of or . Otherwise something will happen. Just like the woman in the article, now I know that those people dancing with you have a purpose. By this time it was already too late. I hope this case can make all the elderly pay attention. You can do other things in your old age. Not necessarily for ballroom dancing.

How many old people have ruined their families because of ballroom dancing. How many old people have lost everything because of ballroom dancing? These things must be paid attention to. Otherwise, you will be like this too, let's take a look at this matter together. I hope everyone can take this as a warning. Can't dance ballroom. A 58-year-old woman cried: After ballroom dancing, I realized that those men dancing with you had a purpose.

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58-year-old Aunt Wu:

My husband who has been with me all my life wants to divorce me. Even my children don’t help me. I thought my child would help me, but my child didn’t help me. I was wrong. I know this is embarrassing. But it has to be said. I hope everyone will pay attention, especially those who want to dance ballroom.

Don’t think that nothing will happen, let alone think that you are different from me, and don’t think that the people who dance there are different from the people here. What I want to tell you is that they are all the same. If you don’t pay attention, then what I am waiting for you will definitely be a tragedy, just like me now.

I didn’t think that something would happen to me before. I used to think that I was different from others, but then I discovered that they are all the same. If you dance too much, something will happen to you. There is a saying that goes like this: if you are close to vermillion, you will be red; if you are close to ink, you will be black. You danced too much ballroom dancing with those people.

Things will happen naturally. This is how I got into trouble. Many people who get into trouble while dancing are like this. In order to avoid tragedy, but also to avoid losing everything. Be sure to pay attention. If you can avoid ballroom dancing, try not to dance. You can also exercise by doing other things.

For example, badminton, table tennis, and basketball. All kinds of exercise are possible. Why does it have to be ballroom dancing? Even if it’s square dancing, why is it ballroom dancing? Let me tell you about my personal experience. I came to live with my child two years ago. My husband raises pigs in his hometown, and I came to my children's place to help take care of my grandchildren.

My child told me that we are very busy at work and don’t have time to take care of the children. How about you come over and help? You don’t have much to do at home anyway. You don't help your father raise pigs. I felt it was too stinky, so there was nothing I could do, and I felt there was no need to be so tired. After working hard all my life, I should enjoy it when I get old. Why would I be so tired?

I don’t have a pension. It’s more than 1,000 yuan a month. More than 1,000 yuan is enough. Why do I need to be so tired? My husband, on the other hand, feels that there is never enough money to continue working when he is old. Having money is better than having no money. There's nothing to do anyway, so why can't you make more money?

I don’t want to say anything to my husband. If he wants to raise pigs, then he can raise them, but I won’t help. My husband told me, if you don’t want to help, then don’t help. That’s what I have to do. All you have to do is live your life well. Then I came to my son's side to help take care of the grandson.

I thought that it would not be so boring after coming here, but it became even more boring after coming here, even though I sometimes have to help with my grandson to help with housework. But most of the time I am bored, what should I do? I stay at home every day.

When my child saw me like this, he told me, you can go out for a walk when you have time. There is no need to stay at home every day. Problems will arise if you stay there for a long time. I told my children, I am unfamiliar with life here, where can I go? And I don't know what to do.

Then my child told me that there is a big park next to us. You can go and sit there. There are many old people there. I saw many old people going there to hang out. You can also go there and sit. Breathable too. Then I went out, and later I danced ballroom dancing with those people. When I first came here, I couldn't dance, and a man took the initiative to dance with me.

This man’s name is Lao Zhang. Lao Zhang took the initiative to invite me to dance with him. I told Lao Zhang that I couldn’t dance. But Lao Zhang told me, no one can do it at the beginning. Everyone can’t do it at the beginning. If you want to learn, I can teach you. Anyway, I lack this dance partner. Then I told Lao Zhang, okay, I don’t have anything to do anyway. If you are willing to teach, then I am willing to learn.

Just like this, I danced with Lao Zhang. I felt something was wrong at the beginning. He put his hands on my waist. I had seen other people dance like this before, so I pushed Lao Zhang away at once. But Lao Zhang asked me, do you still want to dance with me? You see, everyone is like this, why do they push me away?

You also put your hands on my waist. You also took advantage, didn't you? And everyone is like this. If you want to dance, you have to do this. Otherwise, how can you dance and cooperate. I saw that almost all the people were like this, and some of the men were very close to each other, while the other women not only did not resist, but actually enjoyed it.

I told Lao Zhang, okay, you can put your hands on my waist, but you must not mess around. But Lao Zhang said to me, how could I do this? This is how everyone dances. We are a formal place, okay? And we often participate in competitions. Lao Zhang was dancing with me while telling me about his affairs. Later, our relationship became better and better.

The purpose of my dance at that time was to relieve boredom and exercise. I believe that many old people have this purpose when they go to ballroom dancing. But there is a question, have you ever thought about it? If you go to trade, I do do it to exercise. Would that be like this if it were someone else? Do people really dance just to exercise?

Many times, many things are not like this. It is because you think of this matter too simply. Maybe you just want to dance and exercise. But people are probably not like this. Just like Lao Zhang dancing with me, his purpose is definitely not to exercise, his purpose is me. Let's put it this way, when he dances with me, it's not the wine that matters, but the beauty of the landscape.

To put it bluntly, he dances just for me, and he dances with me because of me. The time I dance with Lao Zhang is getting longer and longer, and our relationship is getting better and better. Sometimes Lao Zhang would invite me to compete. After winning the competition, we would get part of the bonus. Sometimes 100, sometimes a few hundred is better than nothing.

Then Lao Zhang would let me take a few hundred yuan to eat out. I don’t think there’s much wrong with it, after all, we earned these hundreds of dollars together. Then we often went out to eat, but Lao Zhang, who had endless money to spend, asked me to keep it until the next time.

Because of you, our relationship is even better. One day, Lao Zhang asked me to go to his house for dinner. Lao Zhang told me that my child was going to come back for dinner, so I prepared a lot of meals, but he won't come back now.

I have prepared so much food, it is impossible to waste it, and I can’t finish it by myself. I don’t know who to ask to have dinner with me, but I know you relatively well. Why don't you come over to eat at home? I've already prepared the meal and I'll wait for you to come over and eat.

Lao Zhang has prepared everything. Now that the time has come, how can I refuse? Don't say it's me when it comes to this. I don't think you can refuse it if it's you. They are so polite and have prepared meals, how can you refuse? And at that time, I just thought it was just eating.

Lao Zhang and I are just friends, we dance every day.But I never thought that Lao Zhang, who was dancing with me, didn't think so. He let me come there not only to eat but also to get me. While eating with me, he poured me a glass of wine. Lao Zhang told me that he thought my children were back for dinner, so I opened the wine in advance.

But why didn’t I expect that they wouldn’t come back and open it? It’s impossible not to drink it and pour it out. What a waste. This bottle of wine is a good thing and costs thousands of dollars. While talking, let me drink. I don’t know what happened. I felt dizzy after taking a small sip. I didn’t want to drink it at first, but Lao Zhang told me that you have drank this glass of wine. If you don’t drink it, who will drink? What a waste.

A small cup may cost several hundred yuan. You can finish it and stop drinking it. No matter what I can do, I can only drink it as hard as I can. I lost consciousness before I finished drinking. I don’t know what happened next. When I woke up, it was the morning of the second day. I slept like crazy last night.

I thought this man was my husband, but now I know that this man is not my husband at all, but Lao Zhang. I did something sorry for my husband. I picked up my phone and saw that my husband had called me dozens of times. Not only were the phone messages sent late, but I did not reply. I cried instantly. I just wanted to dance with Lao Zhang, but now I did these things.

What should I tell my husband? Although my husband doesn’t know about this yet, he will know it sooner or later. After all, I didn’t go back to spend the night last night. My children will definitely tell my husband, and they will definitely be very anxious.

The more I thought about it, the more helpless I became. I quickly got dressed and went home. When I got home, my child asked me where I had been and told me that my husband would be here soon. He wants to take me back to his hometown, otherwise he is afraid that something will happen to me and I am afraid that I will go anywhere. I cried, and I didn’t know what to say. I went back to the room to pack my clothes.

You should go back to your hometown with your husband. The people here are too complicated. To be precise, the people who dance ballroom are too complicated. Maybe you just want to dance with others, but their purpose is not just to dance, but to be a drunkard. The intention is not to drink. Just like when Lao Zhang danced with me, many people said that they could call the police.

If I call the police, it means that my husband knows about it again. If my husband knows about this, will he divorce me? If that's the case, am I going to lose everything? I have been with my husband all my life. I don’t want to lose everything, I don’t want to be without my husband, I don’t want to be without this family. I don’t know what happened. I didn’t tell my husband, but my husband knew something.

Maybe I heard someone say that they insist on divorcing me. Although my husband has no evidence to prove this, I feel that he already knows about it, and he will not divorce me in this case. Now I don't know what to do. My husband doesn't want me anymore and my children want me to leave.

I was wrong, would this have happened if I had not gone to ballroom dancing? I have to blame myself. I destroyed my family with my own hands. This is all my fault. Old people really can't dance in this dress. Don't think that you are an exception, let alone that nothing will happen to you. Don't be afraid of ten thousand, just be afraid of the worst. That's because dancing with you has a purpose.

Conclusion:

If I had known this, why would I have done it now? Who can be blamed for this ending? If you hadn't gone ballroom dancing, would this still have happened? If you hadn't danced, this would never have happened, so you have yourself to blame. Faced with this matter, 99% of men choose to divorce, but I think you should confess it to your husband. If you can forgive it, then forgive it. If you can't forgive it, then divorce it. You can't help it because it's your own fault.

hopes that this case can make everyone pay attention, especially if the elderly can not dance ballroom dancing, it is good to do other things, and other things can also exercise.

For example, badminton, table tennis, basketball, all kinds of sports can be used to exercise, not necessarily ballroom dancing. At that time, people danced with you for a purpose. Don't simply think that they danced with you just to exercise.

How many old people have ruined everything because of ballroom dancing? How many cases are there? There are already too many, don’t let such a tragedy happen again, okay? If you can avoid jumping, try not to jump. Do something else, not only for yourself but also for your family. Do you want to go back to everything you own when you get old?