Adlerian psychology is not the psychology of changing others, but the psychology of pursuing self-change. Don't wait for others to change, don't wait for the situation to change, but take the first step bravely yourself. If people feel depressed or nervous together, then even a r

Adlerian psychology is not the psychology of changing others, but the psychology of pursuing self-change. Don't wait for others to change, don't wait for the situation to change, but take the first step bravely yourself.

If people feel depressed or nervous together, then even a romantic relationship cannot be called love.

Only when people can feel that they can be unrestrained with this person can they experience love.

neither has an inferiority complex nor shows off his superiority, and can maintain a calm and natural state. Real love should be like this.

On the other hand, bondage is a desire to dominate the other person and is also an idea based on distrust.

If the other person lives a happy life, then he can sincerely wish him well. this is Love. Relationships that bind each other will soon break down.

If you are in the same space with someone who does not trust yourself, it is impossible to maintain a natural state.

Adler said: "If you want to live harmoniously together, you must treat each other as equals."