My wife often cheats on her male best friend, but when her husband Brother Liu finds out, he pretends that nothing happened. I have to say that he is really heartbroken and it destroys his outlook on life. Why? Let’s find out quickly.
Brother Liu thought that no man in the world could tolerate his wife having a close male best friend. Brother Liu clearly knew that his wife frequently dated her male best friend, but he never paid attention to it and pretended that nothing happened. ,Why is this?
Brother Liu explained the reason: Such a cheap nanny is useless! Let everyone come and see what is going on.
Before he got married to his wife, Brother Liu knew that she had a male best friend who was also his wife's childhood friend. However, after they fell in love, his wife was with Brother Liu every day, and they had not interacted with her male best friend for a long time. My wife also assured Brother Liu that she only wanted to I love Brother Liu. Brother Liu trusted his wife, married her, and looked forward to a happy life with her in the future.
After getting married, Brother Liu and his wife lived happily. Brother Liu was very kind to her, doted on her in every possible way, and obeyed her. He even took the initiative to do all the housework when he came home, and kept a certain distance from the opposite sex, even his wife’s female colleagues. They all envy her for having a husband like Brother Liu who loves her and cares about her family.
Unexpectedly, in the fifth year after marriage, he discovered that his wife had close contact with her male best friend behind his back. When he checked the chat records, he found that the words were ambiguous. Finally, he also obtained evidence of their date, intimate nude photos of his wife and her male best friend. And there is evidence of house opening records. Judging from the house opening records, in the past two years, there have been ten or eight records almost every month, and more than twenty records a month. Brother Liu said that they have never had so many records with her after they have been married for so long. Second-rate. When
knew that he had been cuckolded, he was so angry that he was so angry that he was very doubtful about life. He wished he could find someone to beat up the couple, catch them in bed, divorce his wife, and make her cry bitterly. Himself, make her regret it.
Divorce revenge can indeed be very enjoyable, but he thought of another way to get revenge, and he was not in a hurry to get divorced. Brother Wu thought about it, wouldn't it be too easy for them to get a divorce, so that they could be together openly and openly? If he doesn't divorce, they will suffer even more and they will always be a pair of shady mice. It also makes her worry and frightened, and suffer the condemnation of her conscience. Not to divorce does not mean that he still loves her, but to use her as a nanny to help him take care of the elderly and children at home.
In the past, Brother Liu loved his wife very much. After learning that she had betrayed him, Brother Liu no longer dotes on her. In the past, Brother Liu loved his wife very much, but now Brother Liu has learned to show off and let her serve him.
It's good that he didn't divorce her. If it weren't for the fact that she could still take care of the elderly and children, he would have divorced her long ago, and then exposed the things about her that she couldn't see. Thinking about it this way, not only could she not blame herself, but she might also have to thank herself.
Brother Liu's changes made her dissatisfied, but she didn't dare to show it, because she had something secret in her heart, and whether Brother Liu was insinuating something about his wife and her best friend, she could only listen to Brother Wu's orders without saying a word, and watch her. Brother Wu is very relieved when he dares to be angry but dare not speak out.
Sometimes my wife is dissatisfied with Brother Liu for asking her to do this or that, and she still plays a little tantrum with Brother Liu like before. Brother Wu hinted that she was not sure whether Brother Liu knew about her affair with her male best friend. She was afraid that Brother Liu would know about her affairs, so she could only listen to Brother Liu.
Marriage is a battle fortress to the outside world. Husband and wife are comrades who can show their backs to each other. The two of them work together to fight for life resources through hard work, and then enjoy family happiness with the elderly and children together. Marriage and family are the "beautiful results" we strive to achieve in our lifetime and are the ultimate goal of life. If husband and wife are cheating on each other, then marriage will be hell. What's the use of such a marriage. Only when couples work together, respect each other, understand and care for each other, can they form a complete family.
Brother Liu no longer loves his wife, but his wife and her male best friend are still together, and Brother Liu no longer treats him badly. Brother Liu is also a charming man. After he no longer keeps a distance from the opposite sex around him, there will always be women who fall in love with Brother Liu. Brother Liu has now found a woman outside, and he is in love with her. He has long since stopped caring about his wife and just treats her as a nanny.
Brother Liu will also ask himself and feel guilty. Is this too much? But then I thought that my wife had betrayed me first.
The strong twist is not sweet. Originally, it was because two people were not getting along that they had thoughts and actions of cheating. If marriage is free, love should be free first. Without the freedom of love, everything is repressed. In some repressed marriages, the other party may have an affair and it will be relieved. After the novelty has passed, they will look back. Of course, after giving birth to a child, you have to be responsible. This will only increase the pressure and cheat. People, weigh it yourself. On the contrary, suppressing repressed people may be counterproductive. Some people vent their violence within marriage, even commit suicide, hurt each other, etc. It is estimated that there will be a higher risk. In a progressive society, people should have more rights to choose, rather than having their choices restricted by more people.
If you say that you are unhappy and cannot get divorced, it is because of your breach of contract that your partner has a child and loses the warmth of a father's love and family. Should you pay mental damages? Should you pay surcharges for the children's various education fees? Fee? Should children also have the right to inherit, not just illegitimate children? Does it violate the morality of being a human being to lose the responsibility of being a father under the freedom of marriage? Because in a moment of greed, one forgets the fundamentals of being a human being. Not unlike animals. If you do that, no one will want to be with you.
It's good that he didn't divorce her. If it weren't for the fact that she could still take care of the elderly and children, he would have divorced her long ago, and then exposed the things about her that she couldn't see. Thinking about it this way, not only could she not blame herself, but she might also have to thank herself.
It’s not sweet to be strong. It’s because two people are not getting along well that they have thoughts and actions of cheating. If marriage is free, love should be free first. Without the freedom of love, everything is repressed. In some repressed marriages, the other party may have an affair and it will be relieved. After the novelty has passed, they will look back.
Of course, after giving birth to a child, you have to take responsibility for yourself. This will only increase the pressure. People who cheat should make their own decisions. On the contrary, suppressing repressed people may be counterproductive. Some people vent their violence within marriage, even commit suicide, hurt each other, etc. It is estimated that there will be a higher risk. In a progressive society, people should have more rights to choose, rather than having their choices restricted by more people.
Everyone desires happiness, but few people know that true happiness can only be achieved by restraining desires, and few people "restrain". It's okay not to restrain yourself, but even if you don't restrain yourself, you still need to think rationally, otherwise if you really encounter "cheating", it will make you suffer for a lifetime.
No matter whether it happened accidentally or not, it will never change the fact of being unfaithful, but if you truly know that you are wrong, you must make up for it, so that you can make your marriage last forever.
