Only men and women who have gone on a blind date will know how cruel the blind date market is~
In the past, blind dates were when a matchmaker introduced two young men and women to get to know each other, and the remaining two people communicated, and if they felt they were right, they could be together.
Nowadays, times are different. In addition to being amenable to each other, men and women also need to look at each other's conditions. If they are slightly dissatisfied, the blind date is basically useless. They just have one more friend to meet!
In today's society, blind dates = Men are judged by their looks, and women are judged by their conditions. cannot meet these two points. Going on a blind date is just a formality.
A woman’s weird request for a blind date
Ms. Wang, 33 years old, is from Changchun. Both her parents work in public institutions. Their combined monthly salary is about 15,000 yuan. She has been cherished by her parents since she was a child...
After graduating from college, Ms. Wang I found a good job locally, but due to the nature of my work, I couldn't meet the opposite sex in my life, so I left myself alone.
When she was in her 20s, Ms. Wang could still ignore her parents’ nagging, but after she turned 30, Ms. Wang also realized deeply that she should find a man to get married and start a family...
Ms. Wang said that on the one hand, it was to cope with her parents. On the other hand, it is also for myself. My parents will leave me one day. If I get married and have a husband and children, they can stay with me.
What should I do if there is no opposite sex in my life? Ms. Wang had no choice but to participate in the dating show, hoping to find the other half of her life as soon as possible!
Ms. Wang signed up for half a month, and she met a man on the blind date program. The man was 35 years old and from Changchun. When she heard the other man’s conditions, Ms. Wang thought that she should go and meet him.
After the two arrived at the agreed place, Ms. Wang saw the husband, Mr. Chen. When they met for the first time, Mr. Chen's sunny appearance and humorous language left a good impression on Ms. Wang!
Eyes are very important when it comes to blind dates. Ms. Wang was very satisfied with Mr. Chen and asked to get to know him better. Unexpectedly, Mr. Chen had the same idea. The two hit it off.
Seeing the two people like this, the matchmaker felt that they should be able to get married. Unexpectedly, after sitting together, Ms. Wang put forward her conditions. Mr. Chen sat aside and didn't know how to answer.
Ms. Wang said: I think if the two of us want to be together, we must have at least a 180-square-meter house...
In addition to the 180-square-meter house, my mother said that she must give a gift of 500,000 yuan. This is a gift from a boy to the woman. Respect...
The requirements for a car are not high, but it cannot be a simple mobility scooter. At least you must have a BMW 5 Series!
When Mr. Chen heard Ms. Wang's request, he was speechless for a moment, but he felt that it was not easy for two people to have a compatibility, so he began to try to refute, saying that the bride price was just a matter of mind. If you talked about it openly, it would be Traded.
Ms. Wang then said that it is not easy for my parents to raise me. You can’t pick up a big girl for free, right?
Mr. Chen: It’s not like I can’t give you a bride price. I’ve never thought about marrying a wife without spending money, but it’s not good if you say everything.
I can’t afford a bride price of 500,000, but a few hundred thousand is fine. My family can afford 200,000 to 300,000 yuan...
My native family is not good. I think it is not easy to buy an apartment in Changchun on my own. But if you insist on 180 square meters, I really can't satisfy you!
Ms. Chen: I want a 180-square-meter house. I have my own considerations for that. After we get married, we will live in one room. Your parents may come over, and you have to leave one room for them, and prepare another room. Guest room?
Mr. Chen then retorted that a four-bedroom house is not necessarily 180 square meters. I think when two people are together, many things should be discussed, instead of having to do it as soon as you open the door.
Ms. Wang continued to explain, my mother said this is the most basic requirement. In this day and age, which family can’t afford a house?
Ms. Wang asked Mr. Chen how much my monthly income was. Mr. Chen said that my monthly income was more than 10,000 yuan. Although the salary was not very high, there was still room for improvement, and there was no big problem in supporting the family.
Ms. Wang continued to talk about her family situation. My parents have pampered me since I was a child. No matter what I need, they will buy it for me. It is impossible for me to lower my quality of life after getting married. Then my salary can still support myself. I just want to get married so that more people can love me!
The two talked for a long time, and Ms. Wang’s requirements did not lower at all. Once Mr. Chen refuted, his first reaction was what my mother said.
In the end, the blind date between the two failed as expected. Mr. Chen looked helpless and said that he couldn't afford to marry her even if he sold her, and he couldn't afford even 5 million.
Ms. Wang also saw Mr. Ting's helplessness and explained that she was very sorry. My mother said these are basic requirements. If you think you can't do it, then there is nothing I can do. We should both continue to look for it!
The matchmaker felt a little helpless when she saw the two of them chatting like this. She didn’t know how to persuade her, and it seemed like she couldn’t. The woman had strict conditions and obeyed her mother’s arrangements in everything, and she was not willing to give in at all...
