Wen丨Tao Xiaojing, the spring breeze is not as good as yours, Xiaojing is here, waiting for you! -01-The relationship between men and women may exist as short-lived as a flash in the pan, or it may develop for a long time. The decisive factor is how two people manage their relatio

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The spring breeze is not as good as you, Xiaojing is here, waiting for you!

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The relationship between men and women may exist as short-lived as a flash in the pan, or it may develop for a long time.

What plays a decisive factor in this is the management of feelings between two people. Only those who manage their feelings carefully can truly get the most perfect love in the world.

Unfortunately, many women only pay attention to the depth of love and have not found a suitable business model.

Women always feel that as long as they love deeply enough, the relationship will be stable and the man will continue to love her.

However, emotional matters are not as simple as imagined, and men will not easily satisfy women's wishes.

In the final analysis, whether a woman can make a man continue to love her depends on management.

Many women may think that managing a relationship is too difficult, but this is not the case.

Women should not think that running a business is so difficult. You just need to be clear-headed, clarify what you should do and what should not be done, and then be cautious in your words and deeds, and you will gain something.

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The reason why many women cannot make their relationships last for a long time is mainly because women do too many stupid things in their relationships. How can a woman grasp happiness if she is too stupid?

Being stupid in a relationship will not only make the relationship road more bumpy, but will also make you completely lose hope. Women should not be like this.

As a woman, Xiaojing doesn't want to see women continue to be stupid, so she hopes women understand that if you want a man to continue to love you, you can't do these stupid things.

Give everything for a man

Many women have one thing in common, that is, they are willing to give everything for a man without any complaints.

Women naively think that their efforts can win a man’s sincerity, but men are blessed with blessings. No matter how much you pay for him, he may not take you to heart.

A man will never treat a woman as his only one just because she pays more. No matter how much a woman puts in, once he meets someone who makes his heart beat, he will still fall in love with her.

If a woman wants a man to continue to love you, then you'd better not give everything to the man and leave some chips for yourself, so that your praise rate will not be so bumpy.

You may be surprised, why not giving is more useful than giving?

is actually easy to understand, because when you don’t pay for a man, a man will do everything possible to make you pay for him.

As long as a man is willing to find a way to exchange for your efforts, your status in the man's mind will continue to rise. If things go on like this, a man's love for you will become deeper and deeper.

Give up everything for a man

While paying for a man, many women will also choose to give up everything for a man.

Women think that by giving up to prove their love, they will move men. But in fact, the woman's giving up only moved herself.

A man may understand your feelings because of your giving up, but he will not continue to love you because of this. Even if you give up everything for him, he will still leave you one day.

For a man, if you can give up everything else, sooner or later you will give up on him too. He doesn't want to passively accept this situation, so he will take the initiative to leave you when he can't stand it anymore.

If you want a man to continue to love you, then don’t do this stupid thing and leave yourself a way out, so that you won’t end up with nothing.

Xiaojing hopes that women can understand that no matter how deeply you love, never give up easily.

Change yourself for men

Xiaojing has interviewed many women and found that they all try to change themselves to keep men's hearts.

Women think that if they become what men like, they can make men love them forever, but time will tell you that your changes will have no effect.

Although you have indeed become what men like, men's needs will also change. Maybe this is what he likes now, and it won't be long before he has new preferences.

Of course you can change it according to a man's preferences, but in this case, you are not really you.

Even if you are fake, how can the love you get be real?

You can change yourself for a man, but you can't completely become unlike yourself. Once you become unrecognizable, men will no longer love you.

If you want a man to love you all the time, don't do such stupid things. Keep being yourself and you will be happier.

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Managing relationships is not a simple matter, but it is not as difficult as you think. As long as you find the right method, you can see results without spending too much energy.

If you have been doing stupid things in your relationship that hurt others and yourself, no matter how much you pay, how much you give up, or how much you change, the final result will not be what you want.

If you want a man to continue to love you, then you cannot continue to go down the wrong road or continue to be stupid.

I hope you can understand that some things, once done, will only make you further away from happiness.

If you don’t want to stay away from happiness, if you don’t want to lose a man’s love, then please start from now on, be cautious in your words and deeds, and stop doing these stupid things.