The relationship between men and women, the most stable relationship between men and women, cannot be separated from the following four words. Only by following these four words can the relationship between two people be preserved during the relationship. Getting along between people is not as simple as we think. It requires two people to balance each other and work hard on each other. Once one party fails to do so, the relationship will not last.
The first character is the word "Jing". Only when men and women respect each other and treat each other as guests can the relationship between two people not be damaged. Once respect is lost, it is easy to verbally offend the other person. If you lose respect in your heart, you will easily ignore the other person's feelings when doing things, causing the relationship between the two people to fall into trouble and become increasingly unstable. Therefore, if you want to love for a long time, you must have a heart of awe for each other, not touch each other's principles and bottom lines, and avoid hurting each other.
The second word is the word "stable". When two people are together, no matter what happens or what problems they encounter, they must maintain emotional stability and not be impulsive. As the saying goes, impulse is the devil. If there is such an impulsive "devil" in the relationship between two people, it is easy to hurt each other, so that the relationship deteriorates and the two people break up. In real life, many men and women are getting tired of getting along and don't know how to face each other. This is all because of the harm caused by emotional impulses, which makes each other afraid of each other. As the old saying goes, it doesn't freeze a thousand feet in a day. Frequent temper tantrums and hurting each other will deepen the hurt and create an insurmountable emotional "gap" between two people.
The third word is the word "shou". When men and women interact and get along, they must learn to protect each other, and they cannot give up their relationship easily just because of a little difficulty. It is not easy for two people to come together. They must learn to cherish each other and the fate of being together. They should not break up easily, let alone mention divorce easily. If you can't keep your heart, it will be difficult to keep a relationship. No matter whether it is day or night, things change when things change. Or if you find something wrong with the other person, you will completely deny the relationship between the two people. There is a saying that staying together forever, only by strengthening each other's emotional beliefs can it be more conducive to stabilizing the relationship between men and women.
The fourth word is the word "giving up". When men and women interact and get along, they must have the spirit of giving up. If you give up big, you will get big, if you give up small, you will get small, and if you don't give up, you will get big. If you don't know how to let go, you won't be able to get this feeling for a long time. In addition, the word "shed" also reveals the meaning of empathy and putting yourself in the other person's shoes. The stability of the relationship between men and women cannot be separated from each other's care and care for each other, as well as each other's tolerance and understanding. And these require the word "giving up" to truly maintain a long-term relationship.
